totenkopf Posted May 16, 2015 Posted May 16, 2015 Hi all for those that do not know my story I was with my ex gf for ten months very involved with her and her child both. We had planned getting married and having a future together. We split up and two months on gets into a new relationship then gets engaged to him after six weeks. Well after three long months of engagement its all over and clearly all was not well in paradise. I am feeling very happy about this as there was a period of him sending me a picture of the ring and other assorted scallywag behaviour. So I am right to conclude he was a rebound after all. 1
dangerbang Posted May 16, 2015 Posted May 16, 2015 How do you know this? You shouldn't be getting info like this. It will only harm you. Don't do anything stupid.
I_Give_Up67 Posted May 16, 2015 Posted May 16, 2015 Either a rebound or another victim of her flakey behavior. But he deserved it for being a douche and sending you those photos. Has she been in contact with you since their breakup? Be very cautious if she contact you. 2
Author totenkopf Posted May 16, 2015 Author Posted May 16, 2015 Either a rebound or another victim of her flakey behavior. But he deserved it for being a douche and sending you those photos. Has she been in contact with you since their breakup? Be very cautious if she contact you. Thanks for the reply. Yeah he definitely deserves it and I will be honest I'm relishing it lol. No she hasn't contacted me I bet she will swiftly move on though. 1
TaraMaiden2 Posted May 16, 2015 Posted May 16, 2015 ..."scallywag"..... heh heh heh..... nice.....! 1
I_Give_Up67 Posted May 16, 2015 Posted May 16, 2015 ..."scallywag"..... heh heh heh..... nice.....! "scallywag"?? You're too darned nice! OP- I know what you mean.. I'm sure this gave you a huge boost when you learned of the breakup. I feel sorry for the next poor soul that get tangled in her web.
lolablue17 Posted May 16, 2015 Posted May 16, 2015 OP!! Please go to previous threads of yours and read my comments. I made an assumption that this whole relationship of her and her new Bf, is for your eyes only. That it's a fake, even if they were engaged. All those photos you got, that HE sent you, looked very odd to me. Now look - What a surprise, they broke up! I think for your sanity, call her and meet her. not to get back together con, but just as friends. After that meeting, you will know what to do, i'm sure.
erklat Posted May 16, 2015 Posted May 16, 2015 ^omg don't do that. Lolablue what is with you now? Usually you give good advice. Op, that kind of information should not get through to you. In the end Your not giving a fnck about what she does should be eternal. 3
lolablue17 Posted May 16, 2015 Posted May 16, 2015 ^omg don't do that. Lolablue what is with you now? Usually you give good advice. Op, that kind of information should not get through to you. In the end Your not giving a fnck about what she does should be eternal. I don't know if my advice is good or bad. Maybe it's bad, who knows... But i think that's what I would do if i've been in his position. I call it risk management. Because of that unresolved situation, he is not healing well anyway. So i think by meeting with her he can lose very little, but on the other hand he can gain a lot by solving that unfinished business.
erklat Posted May 16, 2015 Posted May 16, 2015 He can not gain anything. She already has all the power and reaching out will only put him in worse position. She can't give him closure. She is not doing anything to him. He is doing it to himself. 3
Itspointless Posted May 16, 2015 Posted May 16, 2015 (edited) I am feeling very happy about this as there was a period of him sending me a picture of the ring and other assorted scallywag behaviour. No man, Lolablue17 is right, there probably never been a new boyfriend. I do not know if you deserved it due to things you did to her. But she is conditioning you to be her puppy. It sounds like you started barking already. Edited May 16, 2015 by Itspointless
Author totenkopf Posted May 17, 2015 Author Posted May 17, 2015 OP!! Please go to previous threads of yours and read my comments. I made an assumption that this whole relationship of her and her new Bf, is for your eyes only. That it's a fake, even if they were engaged. All those photos you got, that HE sent you, looked very odd to me. Now look - What a surprise, they broke up! I think for your sanity, call her and meet her. not to get back together con, but just as friends. After that meeting, you will know what to do, i'm sure. Lolablue17 Thank you so much for all the advice you have given me you have helped me very much and you were absolutely right and I had a gut feeling it was to hurt me. I sent her a message yesterday saying " congratulations on your lengthy and fruitful engagement to Tommy " I really don't think she will talk I think she has made such a fool of herself and to ne honest I think she has a serious problem how she carries on with sex and relationships
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