Ryderr Posted May 15, 2015 Posted May 15, 2015 I've been on one date/hangout? with this girl getting coffee in the morning and talking for about 2 hours. She had this guy she had been seeing but it was coming to the end of the relationship which she told me about. Anyway for 3 weeks she continually said that she was busy or couldn't make it to any 'dates' so I stopped contacting her at all. So this week (a week later) I get a text from her saying she would like to hangout next saturday which I said I'll get back to you later in the week because im not sure if im free. Later in the week i texted saying we can meet up, we're meeting on saturday morning having lunch for an hour then going on to watch a movie because she has a presentation on that night. But she told me she had a pretty bad week, naturally I asked why? Turns out the guy she was seeing/dating went back to his ex girlfriend behind her back and she said "I'm really keen to move on now!" and this was the day she texted me to meet up. Now I still don't know if this girl is interested in dating me or just been friends with me, honestly it doesn't bother me either way but I'm curious if I should just ask her straight out? Suggestions? Thanks for the help.
d0nnivain Posted May 15, 2015 Posted May 15, 2015 Go to the lunch movie. Hold her hand or put your arm around her in the theater. If she looks at you like you are nuts, it's not a date. 2
LostOne1 Posted May 16, 2015 Posted May 16, 2015 I've been on one date/hangout? with this girl getting coffee in the morning and talking for about 2 hours. She had this guy she had been seeing but it was coming to the end of the relationship which she told me about. Anyway for 3 weeks she continually said that she was busy or couldn't make it to any 'dates' so I stopped contacting her at all. So this week (a week later) I get a text from her saying she would like to hangout next saturday which I said I'll get back to you later in the week because im not sure if im free. Later in the week i texted saying we can meet up, we're meeting on saturday morning having lunch for an hour then going on to watch a movie because she has a presentation on that night. But she told me she had a pretty bad week, naturally I asked why? Turns out the guy she was seeing/dating went back to his ex girlfriend behind her back and she said "I'm really keen to move on now!" and this was the day she texted me to meet up. Now I still don't know if this girl is interested in dating me or just been friends with me, honestly it doesn't bother me either way but I'm curious if I should just ask her straight out? Suggestions? Thanks for the help. If I was walking with her.. I'd grab and hold her hand at some point. If she pulls back, then chances are it isn't a date. If she lets you hold her hand... there is a good chance she is interested.
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