LouisAlexander Posted May 15, 2015 Posted May 15, 2015 Okay i am useally not a ldr person but a couple weeks ago i met this woman on fb. She approached me after a while to fb marry her for fun. Nothing more but we went sky rocket in 2 weeks. Sending eachother love pictures , mind you shes in australia im in holland. Also im 33 shes 59. I know this does sound insane. After 2 weeks she said we should slow down. It made me sad, and i made the biggest mistake ever. I got drunk on fb and started ranting to her. At first she refused to find another dude but after i was so dumb to push it she blocked me. Now after a few days im back in her group and re friended her. She said the feeling is gone and i panicked, im still struck by it cause i was so madly falling for her. In love you cant say cause its an online thing right but we where alrdy making plans to meet at the end this year. Im not an alcoholic irl but she barely knows me so she thinks its a sign of a heavy drinker. I probably made the worst mistake ever but we're back to being friends again. Now this is all going very fast, but im planning to win her back and take things slowly. Im back in her group and trying to have fun again... Is it really worth going for her...i can live with distance and such but would it really have chance? This is probably going way 2 fast but i still want to win her over, if it takes weeks or months so be it. Or should i just give it up? Im just curious how women think, in my mind if i just take it slowly i might get back to her showing the me sober , and that i slipped up. Or am i just having false hope and losing my heart a bit?
Author LouisAlexander Posted May 15, 2015 Author Posted May 15, 2015 Oka an update no advice. For the people out there do not do fb dating ever if youre sensitive or looking. I got approached by this woman , we went sky rocket in 2 weeks and i basiclly got dropped like a brick. And this wasn't because i was nasty, it was because she wanted us to slow down and later admitted she took it too seriously. So be careful with online bs, i learned my lesson. I took her for granted and fell for her bs.. even at the age of 33 i still fell for it. Just warning for ya'll. NEXT on to dating women irl this is not for me.
ExpatInItaly Posted May 16, 2015 Posted May 16, 2015 You're right: it sounds insane. Because it is. Your first clue that something was strange about this scenario should've been the fact that a nearly 60-year-old woman is wanting a make-believe Facebook "marriage." What does that even mean? That is something a teen might do. Honestly, it's odd behaviour for adults. You don't know each other at all. There's nothing to "win back." Sounds like she was looking for a little fun and attention from a younger guy. That's it. Don't bother with this. Get out and meet local women. For all you know, this woman could be married with kids. (And no, a FB profile doesn't tell the whole story)
chados Posted May 19, 2015 Posted May 19, 2015 1. you need to slow down, someone you dont know you cant possible know until at least a year together. 2. she is to old for you face it. to her you are just a boy. 3. im not sure if you want kids but she cant have that now. 4. you come out as very desperate and to me it sounds like you dont have that much personal experience of relationships. this doesnt mean you cant find anything more suitable for you. you just need to not stress things. be a price not someone who needs anyone to live your own life. 5. think about what you really want and dont settle for less.
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