Clarkwg Posted May 15, 2015 Posted May 15, 2015 This date is significant in my ex relationship & I wound myself up about this day/date for the last few weeks & now today has arrived... Yep I'm having a crap day as I told myself I would. I also saw my ex to pick up my child which wound me up further but I didn't say or react to my feelings. I don't really know the purpose of this post apart from to say just as I thought I was dealing with things & having many more good days than bad I then have a crap one like this where I'm thinking about her all day & missing her. On a massive plus point, I remember when every single day was this bad & worse, I'm glad to say that's really not the case anymore, this is a bit or a one off.
Moley87 Posted May 15, 2015 Posted May 15, 2015 Focus on you today, do something that will cheer you up Order a pizza, get friends around you want to be occupied and focusing on something else other then her etc. Just think tomorrow it will be behind you and you can then move forward.
biggles6087 Posted May 15, 2015 Posted May 15, 2015 I was dumped yesterday by a girl i was dating for two months i was left heartbroken cause we were friends before that.So I put my phone on silent and watching a movie at home on my laptop I miss her terribly but trying not to make contact.
coryreply Posted May 15, 2015 Posted May 15, 2015 Sorry you're having a bad day. I agree with a PP, do something awesome for yourself today!
SLee Posted May 15, 2015 Posted May 15, 2015 The healing process, as I've had to learn, isn't completely linear. You'll have good days for a while and then you'll have a really bad day or two. It sucks and is really frustrating, but it's reality. Those significant dates are hard. But there's only a few of them of the year. Focus on the days that aren't significant to the relationship. Keep on moving forward. It'll fade with time and patience.
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