truncated Posted May 15, 2015 Posted May 15, 2015 A recently read an article (but can't find a link to the damned thing) that discussed the what role sex can play in a married couple's relationship. One thing the author mentioned kind of stuck in my mind, and I'm not sure if I agree or disagree with it, so I thought it might be an interesting point for discussion. The point was that both spouses have a responsibility to one another to remain sexually attractive to their partner, whatever that may mean to them, and that if they don't, the consequences could be sex dropping off to very low or non existent levels and the loss of the relationship. While I agree with the idea that both spouses should do their best to remain attractive, what happens if, despite their best efforts, they can't do it? One of the things that the author made a point of saying is that, should the spouse not feel attracted to their husband or wife, or if they aren't satisfied with the "quality" of the sex they are having, they should stop until their spouse makes the changes they are looking for. I don't know about you, but that sounds like cruel and terrible advice. If you found yourself in that situation, what would you do?
understand50 Posted May 15, 2015 Posted May 15, 2015 I have been with my wife for 40 plus years, and when ever we have a issue in the "sack" we Fu@K our way through it. Having Sex is something that helps, and it does not have to the best all the time, but you never get to the best if you do not "have" sex. Communication between you both is what matters. Talking it over when things get in a rut, asking for changes in routine, or going out a planning Sex and lovemaking to make it different. When we go to bed, there is always the possibility of sex, does not always happen, but both of use are open to it. As you both age, things are going to change, I look forward to it. 13811383
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