yxalitis Posted May 15, 2015 Posted May 15, 2015 OK, so I broke up with her: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/527844-my-gf-relationship-bipolar And her response? I hope we can keep our friendship, seriously JUST a FRIEND from now on. Forget the past… move on. Could you please respect our friendship, please do not talk to me again about our relationship. Yes, maybe you are right, I might not know how to love someone, I’m sorry. If you don’t mind, I will take time to clear my clothing from your wardrobe by this weekend, as I do not want my clothes everywhere in the living room. Of cause if you think it’s ok to leave it there till you leave, that’s very generous of you as a friend. All I want to say is “SORRY to make you feel that way, but that’s how you feel, I understand. Keep yourself happy and move on ok. If you learn not to judge others, you will find your life is much easier and happier. Please let me know when will you move, I will need to put up an advertisement. Another option for you is, since you still need to look for a flat, you can stay on as a housemate though, until you find a new gf. But up to you. I’m just saying IF you can let it go, be a friend, I need to look for someone, and you need to look for somewhere, so what is the point? Unless you feel uncomfortable to live with us then I can understand. It’s your choice. Anyway, I really need to get my work done and move on my life. Thanks for everything and I do appreciate that and I would like to keep this friendship forever IF you can let go our past. I will be there to listen to you if you have any trouble in your relationship in the future. So, I reply: I would seriously prefer not to have to move again. But as a friend, and an ex lover, our relationship will be different, not just friends, but close friends, as we have shared so much together. Just not lovers. But you have to try and treat me not so cold, last night was horrible, not even a smile from you, and you basically made me go to bed because you didn’t want me in the living room. Yes, I have to let go, so do you, not to be as cold as ice to me. If you can do that, then I will stay, of course your clothes can stay in the room too. Not like I need the space! I’m not looking for a new partner yet, too soon. If I decide to start dating again, I will do the right thing and tell you. That’s just courtesy. Right now I need some space to think about my life, and why I fall for people who don’t love me. Not a dig at you, this is all about me, and why I can’t read the signs. Yes, I am crazy, and I have made your life harder, and stressful. This is only because when you feel unloved, you lose part of yourself. Well, at the very least I can spend more time looking for a better home, and not be forced to move ASAP to a less than ideal place. Thoughts?
Author yxalitis Posted May 18, 2015 Author Posted May 18, 2015 WOW... NO ONE has an opinion to share?
aloneinaz Posted May 18, 2015 Posted May 18, 2015 WOW... NO ONE has an opinion to share? It's probably because it's very hard to understand what you're saying? Maybe re-write it in a condensed version? I simply could understand your post..
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