Thermals Posted May 15, 2015 Posted May 15, 2015 We're going on a second date. She texted me and wrote: "Let me know the attire for whatever we do...." Is that an invitation to be flirtatious, playful or simply a question about what to wear for the venue? Sometimes flirtation gets lost in the texting. I suppose I could give a serious bland answer, or I could write something like, "Wear a nice evening dress, but bring your birthday suit, too." Is that too prude, rude and improper? I don't want it to backfire on me.
CarrieT Posted May 15, 2015 Posted May 15, 2015 Way too improper with the birthday suit comment. It is a legitimate question because there would be no reason for a nice dress and heals if you are taking her to wander around food trucks (quite actually a hot Friday night date in San Francisco, but requires walking shoes, scarves, and a jacket because of the coastal winds). If you are planning a lot of walking, she might be really uncomfortable in high heels all evening... That sort of thing. 1
La.Primavera Posted May 15, 2015 Posted May 15, 2015 "bring your birthday suit, too" Seriously? Gross.
El Pallasso Posted May 15, 2015 Posted May 15, 2015 You're over thinking things. Leave the flirting for in person. Simply tell her what you guys will be doing and tell her the appropriate attire. For example, if you're going bowling or doing something very physical, it might not be appropriate to wear heels. One simple misconstrued text can ruin everything. Leave the flirting for in person. 1
d0nnivain Posted May 15, 2015 Posted May 15, 2015 If you already know where you are going tell her. She wants to know if she should wear a ball gown, a dress & heels, something sophisticated or jeans & sneakers. The birthday suit comment will cause the 2nd date to be cancelled. 2
GemmaUK Posted May 15, 2015 Posted May 15, 2015 She doesn't know the place you have planned and is asking a serious question. Don't mess up by attempting to flirt on text - at some level it always fails so don not go there.
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