Lizrd3000 Posted May 14, 2015 Posted May 14, 2015 This is exactly what I needed to hear, it's probably even more eye opening for people thinking they've lost their ''one true'' love, or first love. I lost my first love, I just watched this, and it mademe open my eyes as to what reality is like. Enjoy your day, pebbles, or potential Na or Cl mates! <3 1
Jonp219 Posted May 15, 2015 Posted May 15, 2015 This is exactly what I needed to hear, it's probably even more eye opening for people thinking they've lost their ''one true'' love, or first love. I lost my first love, I just watched this, and it mademe open my eyes as to what reality is like. Enjoy your day, pebbles, or potential Na or Cl mates! <3 I can't say I didn't enjoy this video and the sincerity of his words, But his analogy is where MY problem lies. The girls that meet my standards aren't out in the open, they're not at the bars nor are they in the club (I hate the women that go to those places). My standard of a women is normally at home or at work. Although I can pick out 100 attractive pebbles who are MY type, I can only narrow it down to 10 based on their body language and the way they carry themselves. The moment I see a girl I will know if she's attractive or not, but I just need 30 more seconds to know if i'm going to give her a chance to be with me. I understand what he's saying and it makes sense, but for some reason it still doesn't give me comfort. I still want the other pebble no matter what and that will ever change.
OldRover Posted May 15, 2015 Posted May 15, 2015 Yes, I agree with you, and 10 out of 100 is not bad. I would be more like 1 or 2 out of 100. I can eliminate more than half of the pebbles pretty quick. They just don't all look the same, nor to they react the same. Most relationships start with a bit of physical attraction, and that probably narrows it down to the 10 in 100. Then you have to have some positive communication, which probably eliminates half of the 10.... and then you have to have some attraction and emotions that go both ways and that eliminates more.
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