katiegrl Posted May 15, 2015 Posted May 15, 2015 WELL, you guys are in for some bizarre news. I ended up meeting her. Within 20 minutes she was holding my arm and consistently touching me. She kept telling me how nice I looked, smelt, etc. Just constant compliments. Didn't take long before conversation shifted to sex and partners etc. After being on the date for less than 1 hour she asked if we could have a cigarette outside and basically assaulted me, jumped me in plain view of the whole bar making out with me furiously. None of this is a exaggerated by the way, i just got home so i'm still in shock. She asked if I wanted to go for a walk to the beach, i was drunk and amused and enjoying myself so we did, we got to the beach and she took her pants off, was wearing NO UNDERWEAR, asked if I liked her ass and if i wanted to f*** her and what I would do to her. She asked if she could give me oral (what the hell am i supposed to say to this), she did. At this point i was just thinking "this is absolutely insane, i have to just go through with it" and went to just do the deed before she stopped me to tell me SHE IS A VIRGIN. SHE'S A VIRGIN PEOPLE. She said no guy has made her orgasm, she's never received oral, and she's had 1 boyfriend ever when she was 15. She wants me to go round to her house on Tuesdays and Fridays while her parents are at work to "tutor her". I don't even know what to think i'm still in shock. Again not a single word of this is a lie. Would love to hear thoughts on this one. Christ.,, So she still lives with her parents and apparently does not work. Hmmm.... Did you ever find out how old she is? Don't trust her word..she will lie. If she is still in high school, STAY AWAY. If her parents find out, life as you know it now will be over!!! 2
elaine567 Posted May 15, 2015 Posted May 15, 2015 SHE IS A VIRGIN. SHE'S A VIRGIN PEOPLE. Is that not what we told you? Just some silly girl who thinks she is in "love". So are you going to be a total sh*t and take her virginity and keep seeing her as a FWB, as you are not really attracted to her, and break her little heart. I guess you are.
stillafool Posted May 15, 2015 Posted May 15, 2015 I've never heard of a VIRGIN acting like that. As sexually aggressive as she sounds someone would have done her by now. I don't believe this at all. 2
Author hunk Posted May 15, 2015 Author Posted May 15, 2015 She works, i mean she's got a job so technically doesn't "work" work but she's got a job. But yeah, still lives at home. She's in her first year of uni. There's 5 years age difference :lmao: My head is saying run as fast as you can but my junk is telling me otherwise because she has a RIDICULOUS body, I just know nothing great can come from this. To top it all off we were in my exes area (about 5 minutes from her house) and she passed me on the bus and saw us. Made me feel a bit horrible and made me instantly miss her if i'm honest but whatever that's not what this thread's about. What a stupid night
Author hunk Posted May 15, 2015 Author Posted May 15, 2015 I've never heard of a VIRGIN acting like that. As sexually aggressive as she sounds someone would have done her by now. I don't believe this at all. I was pressing her about it because i didn't believe her either, at all. She said she's just literally never met someone she wants to have sex with. I believed her because she was talking about how much she wanted to but couldn't etc etc.
wheream_i Posted May 15, 2015 Posted May 15, 2015 Go for it. Teach her a lesson. Use her for what you want. If she wants love and commitment, then she can get that from someone else. She sending you those pics and hints and you're getting the message loud and clear. Tell her after you've had sex so she can't trap you. If she gets upset about it, it's not your fault. 1
katiegrl Posted May 15, 2015 Posted May 15, 2015 She works, i mean she's got a job so technically doesn't "work" work but she's got a job. But yeah, still lives at home. She's in her first year of uni. There's 5 years age difference :lmao: My head is saying run as fast as you can but my junk is telling me otherwise because she has a RIDICULOUS body, I just know nothing great can come from this. To top it all off we were in my exes area (about 5 minutes from her house) and she passed me on the bus and saw us. Made me feel a bit horrible and made me instantly miss her if i'm honest but whatever that's not what this thread's about. What a stupid night Let your conscience be your guide.......
Author hunk Posted May 15, 2015 Author Posted May 15, 2015 Is that not what we told you? Just some silly girl who thinks she is in "love". So are you going to be a total sh*t and take her virginity and keep seeing her as a FWB, as you are not really attracted to her, and break her little heart. I guess you are. I was strongly considering just putting it out there and telling her i'm not interested in a relationship, I'd happily have a casual thing with her (if she wants to lose her virginity to me, mess around and get some "experience" etc) but I'm not looking for anything else. If i tell her that straight up I don't think i'm being a bad guy. I think she'd be pretty straightforward in her answer, despite this insane sexual episode she seems somewhat emotionally mature 1
Author hunk Posted May 15, 2015 Author Posted May 15, 2015 Go for it. Teach her a lesson. Use her for what you want. If she wants love and commitment, then she can get that from someone else. She sending you those pics and hints and you're getting the message loud and clear. Tell her after you've had sex so she can't trap you. If she gets upset about it, it's not your fault. This is my exact reasoning and current thought process but I didn't want to post it :laugh:
wheream_i Posted May 15, 2015 Posted May 15, 2015 WELL, you guys are in for some bizarre news. I ended up meeting her. Within 20 minutes she was holding my arm and consistently touching me. She kept telling me how nice I looked, smelt, etc. Just constant compliments. Didn't take long before conversation shifted to sex and partners etc. After being on the date for less than 1 hour she asked if we could have a cigarette outside and basically assaulted me, jumped me in plain view of the whole bar making out with me furiously. None of this is a exaggerated by the way, i just got home so i'm still in shock. She asked if I wanted to go for a walk to the beach, i was drunk and amused and enjoying myself so we did, we got to the beach and she took her pants off, was wearing NO UNDERWEAR, asked if I liked her ass and if i wanted to f*** her and what I would do to her. She asked if she could give me oral (what the hell am i supposed to say to this), she did. At this point i was just thinking "this is absolutely insane, i have to just go through with it" and went to just do the deed before she stopped me to tell me SHE IS A VIRGIN. SHE'S A VIRGIN PEOPLE. She said no guy has made her orgasm, she's never received oral, and she's had 1 boyfriend ever when she was 15. She wants me to go round to her house on Tuesdays and Fridays while her parents are at work to "tutor her". I don't even know what to think i'm still in shock. Again not a single word of this is a lie. Would love to hear thoughts on this one. Christ.,, Oops, just read this one. So, what's the problem here?
GorillaTheater Posted May 15, 2015 Posted May 15, 2015 I was pressing her about it because i didn't believe her either, at all. She said she's just literally never met someone she wants to have sex with. I believed her because she was talking about how much she wanted to but couldn't etc etc. It could be that you're that 1 in a million guy that knocked her socks off when no one else possibly could. But let's be realistic here: It's a lot more likely that she's a nut. Assuming she's an adult, which still seems a little iffy from what I gather, tread warily. 3
wheream_i Posted May 15, 2015 Posted May 15, 2015 This is my exact reasoning and current thought process but I didn't want to post it :laugh: Why? Because you'll get slammed for it? Too many people act like girls are sugar, spice and everything nice. F**k that. No they're not. There's proof right there on your Tinder account.
katiegrl Posted May 15, 2015 Posted May 15, 2015 I was pressing her about it because i didn't believe her either, at all. She said she's just literally never met someone she wants to have sex with. I believed her because she was talking about how much she wanted to but couldn't etc etc. Come on now hunk, use your noodle. If she is as hot as you say AND as aggressive....there is no way she's a virgin....and *couldn't* have sex. You are being played BIG TIME! Do you have proof she's in uni? She sounds more like a tenth grader....
darkbloom Posted May 15, 2015 Posted May 15, 2015 Hunk, my friend, how do you get yourself into these situations? Please don't break her heart. She is probably trying get rid of her virginity because she thinks it's a bad thing. That's what people told me when I was her age. They guilt tripped me into thinking virginity is an illness. She probably doesn't know how else to get guys to like her. And I'm going to have to agree with everyone on here, she's probably looking for a relationship with you. Based on previous posts, you sound like a great guy you're just a little bit insecure. Which causes you to make bad decisions. If you have no intention of dating her, let her know. 1
katiegrl Posted May 15, 2015 Posted May 15, 2015 Go for it. Teach her a lesson. Use her for what you want. If she wants love and commitment, then she can get that from someone else. She sending you those pics and hints and you're getting the message loud and clear. Tell her after you've had sex so she can't trap you. If she gets upset about it, it's not your fault. ^^Otherwise known as thinking with your "d*ck" rather than your BRAIN.... 2
elaine567 Posted May 15, 2015 Posted May 15, 2015 I was strongly considering just putting it out there and telling her i'm not interested in a relationship, I'd happily have a casual thing with her (if she wants to lose her virginity to me, mess around and get some "experience" etc) but I'm not looking for anything else. If i tell her that straight up I don't think i'm being a bad guy. I think she'd be pretty straightforward in her answer, despite this insane sexual episode she seems somewhat emotionally mature You have to tell here straight up that all you want is casual and NOT a relationship with her, make that crystal clear. If she goes for it great, but you have to tell her. She says she has waited, as the right man never came along - to dupe her into thinking she has found him in you, would be a despicable way to act.
elaine567 Posted May 15, 2015 Posted May 15, 2015 ^^Otherwise known as thinking with your "d*ck" rather than your BRAIN.... Er..what BRAIN? I see no evidence of a BRAIN.
Author hunk Posted May 15, 2015 Author Posted May 15, 2015 Hunk, my friend, how do you get yourself into these situations? Please don't break her heart. She is probably trying get rid of her virginity because she thinks it's a bad thing. That's what people told me when I was her age. They guilt tripped me into thinking virginity is an illness. She probably doesn't know how else to get guys to like her. And I'm going to have to agree with everyone on here, she's probably looking for a relationship with you. Based on previous posts, you sound like a great guy you're just a little bit insecure. Which causes you to make bad decisions. If you have no intention of dating her, let her know. I don't know how this stuff always happens to me. Yep, i'm definitely insecure which is why i kind of "let" myself fall into these situations. I openly told her that she shouldn't feel pressured into anything, that I wouldn't pressure her or make her sleep with me or anything, and she should only go for it with someone she's comfortable with. I also asked if she would prefer to do it with a boyfriend (sly) and she said "just someone i actually like and get along with, doesn't have to be a boyfriend i suppose". I don't think she's lying, i feel like i would've been able to tell. The way she was explaining it was really hesitant and she kept asking if i cared/it turned me off and she was sorry etc etc. But ****, i dunno, she could be lying. While all this was happening i was just thinking about posting on LS :lmao::lmao:
wheream_i Posted May 15, 2015 Posted May 15, 2015 ^^Otherwise known as thinking with your "d*ck" rather than your BRAIN.... Exactly. Does this girl sound like she's using her brain? What's the difference?
Author hunk Posted May 15, 2015 Author Posted May 15, 2015 Er..what BRAIN? I see no evidence of a BRAIN. Ouch, c'mon i'm just a confused young man lost in the world
wheream_i Posted May 15, 2015 Posted May 15, 2015 I don't know how this stuff always happens to me. Yep, i'm definitely insecure which is why i kind of "let" myself fall into these situations. I openly told her that she shouldn't feel pressured into anything, that I wouldn't pressure her or make her sleep with me or anything, and she should only go for it with someone she's comfortable with. I also asked if she would prefer to do it with a boyfriend (sly) and she said "just someone i actually like and get along with, doesn't have to be a boyfriend i suppose". And same goes for you. You shouldn't get pressured into being someone to this person you never had any intention of in the first place. She already told it doesn't have to be a B/F. So, once it happens, remind her of that.
katiegrl Posted May 15, 2015 Posted May 15, 2015 Exactly. Does this girl sound like she's using her brain? What's the difference? None whatsoever! And I NEVER said or even suggested she was. Clearly, she is NOT using her brain either..but she's in high school! I don't believe for one second she is 18-19 and in college. No way! hunk is in his mid-20s..he should know better. 1
elaine567 Posted May 15, 2015 Posted May 15, 2015 and she said "just someone i actually like and get along with, doesn't have to be a boyfriend i suppose". You missed the clue, "I suppose" means she would rather it was with a bf. 1
elaine567 Posted May 15, 2015 Posted May 15, 2015 None whatsoever! And I NEVER said or even suggested she was. Clearly, she is NOT using her brain either..but she's in high school! I don't believe for one second she is 18-19 and in college. No way! hunk is in his mid-20s..he should know better. I agree, this girl is really immature. I also guess she is in high school.
Author hunk Posted May 15, 2015 Author Posted May 15, 2015 She's 100% telling the truth about her age/going to uni i've seen her uni ID and her drivers license:D unless she's some sort of illegal alien
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