Kozi10 Posted May 14, 2015 Posted May 14, 2015 My girlfriend dumbed me 2 months ago. We were together for 2 1/2 years, for first 2 years we saw each every day we didnt fight much, but then she decidet to go study 300 km away, and it went well, she came home for the weekends i wisted her. But then one day she decides we should go for nc for a month so she can figure out things, i didnt get it way so i asked her to meet. She told she cheated on me, i didnt got mad, and forgave her, she then stayed the week. After she went back to school, i called her and she said she dosent want to talk to me, and said that when she is there she dosent miss me. So i asked her to meet me so we can say goodbye and spend the weekend together, we cried the whole weekend, but still had fun like the look she gives and ****. After that we didnt talk for a month. Then i had to give her money that i owned her, guess what happend we had sex, and decided to stay freind with benefits, she also said she still cares for me and maybe we can be together when we are old(i said dont give me that bull****), she also gave me compliments that i lost weight. We decided to met in a month but stay in nc. But i still cry over her every day i dont know what to do, should i keep doing this ? And the best part is we are going to seaside for 2 weeks with mutal friends were she said we will be together. I dont friking get it, i also said we could stay in conctect and se other people but she refused. Please tell whats going on.
TaraMaiden2 Posted May 14, 2015 Posted May 14, 2015 What is going on is that you are broken up, but she is stringing you along and you are letting her. I'm sorry, but you are being played. I'm sure she would deny it, and frankly, the fault is as much yours as hers. If she has already told you that it's over, but you keep insisting, persisiting and falling for her every time, then you really have only yourself to blame for your actions. Your choice is to break up for good, not speak to her again, not see her again and quit meeting, calling, talking and connecting with her in any way. Read the No Contact Guide, and put it to total use. This is the only way to stop this self-destructive cycle.... This is neither 'Romantic' nor 'Dating' (as the forum you have posted in, suggests). This is 'Breaks and Breaking up'. It's broken all right. Unfixable. Finished. Over. you really need to focus on moving on for good.
madjac74 Posted May 14, 2015 Posted May 14, 2015 She is a parasite. She gets from you what she needs but won't commit to you. She is obviously also getting it from other people. Damn Mosquitos!
David87 Posted May 14, 2015 Posted May 14, 2015 She is letting you go easy and I dont think you are ready to be friends with benefits....to much drama and suffering for you. Just cut your losses and move on. I know its hard but its the best thing you can do right now. 1
Author Kozi10 Posted May 14, 2015 Author Posted May 14, 2015 Yeah i know but it feels so damn good when i am with her And other problem is i have finals and cant learn because i have to think about her
David87 Posted May 14, 2015 Posted May 14, 2015 Of course it feels good when you're spending time with her ...... you love the girl thats why....but this things keep you from moving on....and she already started to move on.... Focus on your finals the best way you can because you'll be thinking of her either you want or not... 1
Author Kozi10 Posted May 14, 2015 Author Posted May 14, 2015 Thanks for replying I saw here with a dude in a video so i kinda replaced sorrow with hate
David87 Posted May 14, 2015 Posted May 14, 2015 Hold on to this feeling as much as you can. You deserve better.
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