nba321 Posted May 13, 2015 Posted May 13, 2015 I posted a week or so ago that I gave in and broke NC with a text. It didn't say much, brought nothing up about the past, and I was indifferent in tone. Since then i have blocked all forms of communication (websites/number) so that cannot happen again. She obviously did not respond and got what she wanted out of me. However, I keep thinking that I want to somehow get my power back by having her reach out so I can ignore her like I did for the last 2-3 months. She got me to respond but that won't be happening again. There is also the possibility I run into her at some point in the next few weeks around town/at a bar/where ever as she just came back from school. What would be the best course of action in the event that I do see her and how can I regain some power over this situation?
Satu Posted May 13, 2015 Posted May 13, 2015 You can't have power over her, but you can have power over yourself. By trying to have power over her, you abdicate your power over yourself. 3
ColdandLonelyinAK Posted May 13, 2015 Posted May 13, 2015 All you can do is start NC all over again, delete the number and block her on social media so she doesn't know what's going on with you. If she did truly get a kick out of you contacting her, then she will probably wonder what's going on the longer you don't talk to her. That's how you get your power back. As for running into her: keep your cool, smile (in a friendly manner as to not give her the wrong idea) and be on your way. If she speaks to you, keep it short. Don't seem too eager to talk to her.
kismetkismet Posted May 13, 2015 Posted May 13, 2015 Relationships and therefor breakups shouldn't be about power or egos. Grow up and move on and focus on yourself, learn what you need to be happy, and do your best to get it. That will make you feel more powerful than some petty texting. 1
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