Jordan185 Posted May 13, 2015 Posted May 13, 2015 I got the vibe from this girl that she liked me based on how she had been acting around me lately. I genuinely thought she was interested in me and even hinted that she wanted to do something with me. I asked her to go hiking and I really did have a good time getting to know her. I think she is an amazing girl. The problem is I just didn't get that same vibe as before. It turns out she is extroverted girl and most of her friends are guys. We didn't hold hands or do anything. I am bummed out. I thought it could be something more. Now I don't think I can be just friends with her. It just wouldn't be fair. Maybe I'm wrong and I missed something. I don't know. I feel like I should just not call her again. I will of course be nice but I don't want to get into something where I will just be let down.
LostOne1 Posted May 14, 2015 Posted May 14, 2015 I got the vibe from this girl that she liked me based on how she had been acting around me lately. I genuinely thought she was interested in me and even hinted that she wanted to do something with me. I asked her to go hiking and I really did have a good time getting to know her. I think she is an amazing girl. The problem is I just didn't get that same vibe as before. It turns out she is extroverted girl and most of her friends are guys. We didn't hold hands or do anything. I am bummed out. I thought it could be something more. Now I don't think I can be just friends with her. It just wouldn't be fair. Maybe I'm wrong and I missed something. I don't know. I feel like I should just not call her again. I will of course be nice but I don't want to get into something where I will just be let down. Okay question... why didn't you hold hands? It's your job to go for it. Hold her hand. At worst she pulls her hand back and you have your answer... she's not interested. If she doesn't pull away then it's either she is very interested or just being nice. Or last but not the least, why not ask her and be straight up with her. Find out what she wants? Is she looking for a relationship, if so what type. Then you know and also have an idea of what she wants. It gives you a chance to tell her. 1
Author Jordan185 Posted May 14, 2015 Author Posted May 14, 2015 Okay question... why didn't you hold hands? It's your job to go for it. Hold her hand. At worst she pulls her hand back and you have your answer... she's not interested. If she doesn't pull away then it's either she is very interested or just being nice. Or last but not the least, why not ask her and be straight up with her. Find out what she wants? Is she looking for a relationship, if so what type. Then you know and also have an idea of what she wants. It gives you a chance to tell her. You're absolutely right. I should have gone for it but I didn't. I'm not the best at this stuff. I still need work. She just got done dating someone actually so I don't know what she is looking for. That's why I don't know if she thought of it as a date or not. I should have been straight up.
preraph Posted May 14, 2015 Posted May 14, 2015 No reason to stick around and torture yourself. Become distant acquaintances. That way she might invite you to a big party sometime in the future when she needs bodies, and there you might meet someone who does want you.
Recommended Posts