ivenius Posted May 13, 2015 Posted May 13, 2015 My ex still sends me some breadcrumbs from time to time. I am a dumpee, and I am almost over her, so sometimes I'll respond her. It's just that I have this tendency to get all anger on her. I can pretend to act like nothing happened, text her back, and ignore, but lately when she sent me some breadcrumbs after a month of being quiet, I started texting her to remove my number finally, and get out of my life. I just realized she's completely over me, and stopped controlling my emotions. She just said I'm immature and mean, and said good bye to me. Then I started regreting this and felt bad for a while. Is this normal, or are those some anger issues? How can I deal with this?
Methodical Posted May 13, 2015 Posted May 13, 2015 My ex still sends me some breadcrumbs from time to time. I am a dumpee, and I am almost over her, so sometimes I'll respond her. It's just that I have this tendency to get all anger on her. I can pretend to act like nothing happened, text her back, and ignore, but lately when she sent me some breadcrumbs after a month of being quiet, I started texting her to remove my number finally, and get out of my life. I just realized she's completely over me, and stopped controlling my emotions. She just said I'm immature and mean, and said good bye to me. Then I started regreting this and felt bad for a while. Is this normal, or are those some anger issues? How can I deal with this? You aren't naive, you acknowledge your understanding of what she is doing, so my question is why are you allowing this? Why did you put the power in her hands? Telling her to stop contact is worthless bc she's controlling your emotions. Instead, take matters into your own hands. Stop snatching breadcrumbs and take some initiative. Block her! I mean, on one hand you say she is controlling and manipulating your emotions, which is true. On the other hand...you're saying all she has to do is tell you that you're immature and mean and that makes you feel bad, which is......another form of her manipulation. Stop her ability to contact you. 2
ManyDissapoint Posted May 13, 2015 Posted May 13, 2015 She is immature -- mostly because she lacks empathy about what you're going through. But nothing she does or is matters anymore to you. Block her, stop responding. Disappear yourself from her life, and her from yours. 1
Ruby65 Posted May 16, 2015 Posted May 16, 2015 She's mad because she enjoys the attention you gave her and now you want to stop stroking her ego. So she blames you and goes off to pout. She sounds like a lovely girl. Take the above advice and block her everywhere -- on your phone, email, on every app and site you use! It will help you move on. Here's a guide that will help you: http://www.breakuprecoveryguide.com
aloneinaz Posted May 16, 2015 Posted May 16, 2015 She's mad because she enjoys the attention you gave her and now you want to stop stroking her ego. So she blames you and goes off to pout. She sounds like a lovely girl. Take the above advice and block her everywhere -- on your phone, email, on every app and site you use! It will help you move on. Here's a guide that will help you: http://www.breakuprecoveryguide.com This ^^ Listen to the great advice being given to you. She dumped you. You owe her NOTHING! She doesn't hear from you and as mentioned, wants her ego stroked and knows your her door mat and you'll reply. Ignore/block and move onto another girl that has some charactor.
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