Hawaii51 Posted May 13, 2015 Posted May 13, 2015 Fannypacks are making a comeback Only only if it's wrapped around a nice soft dad-bod.
Author I_Squared_R Posted May 13, 2015 Author Posted May 13, 2015 I just got back from a upscale salon and the guy who did my hair did a very good job. No more barbers for me. I also did some clothes browsing as well and the girl who had helped was very pretty and nice. (Stupid me isnt that good at creative ways of closing on a phone number - I need to work on that.) I didn't buy anything yet because I was overwhelmed - my wardrobe has been neglected for years so I need to look at my accounts and budget for this before returning I think I am over thinking style. Sometimes I just need some reassurance and a little bit of suggestions. I have a woman coming with me next week, she is very beautiful and carries herself very well - perfect candidate to advise me! This is just something I haven't learned at a young age. I am the adventurous type of guy that thought that just staying healthy and in shape is good enough. It isn't. Men expect their women to get dolled up for them, and women expect the same in return. Some of you are questioning whether I am comfortable in my own skin and I can assure you that I am. My last date was with a beautiful columbian girl and she liked how well I carried myself as confident, assertive, and sociable. Women have noticed this, but they must not like the way I present myself. I came here questioning about style so I can improve myself and some of you are trying to find a deeper issue. There is no deeper issue. Doors fly open for me in business, but they dont for me with women and im trying to resolve this.
davidromero43 Posted May 14, 2015 Posted May 14, 2015 Fannypacks are making a comeback Thank F we call them Bum Bags in the UK... Nuff said.. Only only if it's wrapped around a nice soft dad-bod. Thumbs up to that!
empresario Posted May 14, 2015 Posted May 14, 2015 Another whining thread. Unfortunately.. I talk to as many women as possible. Unfortunately it isnt helping. I get stuck into the friend zone at first glance. It has to be my looks that are holding me back.. I instantly hit a wall. Within seconds of meeting a women they decide whether or not they want to date me. It's usually no because I am not the greatest looking guy. I can never break down that wall no matter how good my game is. In a game of "hot or not" I am already in the NOT. The most unintelligent and socially awkward creep will approach a women and door's fly open! It doesn't matter what they say as long as they are good looking. I need to be put into the hot of the "hot or not" first impressions women do. I am at the point in my life that if women won't accept me the way I am - I will do anything that they will. I will take drastic actions such as plastic surgery because 25 years old without one relationship is NOT good. I'd like to start with changing my style/haircut etc. to see if I can do without spending $10,000++. I am lost though, I don't know anything about style and i've been recommended to barbers, hairstylists, stores and I am still not sure. This is just a cry out for someone to point me in the right direction. I'd like to find a guy/girl around my age who is sensible about this stuff and is willing to help me. Like a lifestyle coach. Friend, I will help where I can. You are now talking to the epitome of whom you hope to become. I am socially stinted, color-blind, and have no sense of style of which to speak. However, now I get complimented on my appearance and fashion sense. I am around your age (slightly older). With what can I help? Let's start with hair. It's hard to suggest something without knowing your face shape. Since I don't have style, I do things scientifically and mathematically. Look up your face shape online (there are diagrams), then look up hair styles recommended for that shape. Next tutorial: clothing.
ascendotum Posted May 15, 2015 Posted May 15, 2015 Yes advertisements are paid for. However, those same advertisers are driving what people view as stylish. You should be a slave to them but do look for ideas. Correct. A lot of money is spent on marketing in those premier mens magazines and far and away most of the brands are high end/designer brands and the gear is over priced. Still though they set the trend and the magazines are good for style ideas and if you are not flush with funds, then go out and find cheaper similar style alternatives. If you have lack of success, changing your style is worthwhile as long as you like the style and its not a case of changing to be trendy but feeling a bit like a dork with your new look. If a guy is say dressing circa 1990s with the oversized baggy pants, chunky necklaces, backwards cap wigga look or ripped jeans & flannelette grunge look and has scraggy hair then a style makeover would make a big difference, but generally I don't think a haircut and some brand name clobber is going to over ride a fat/skinny/short physique or meh face or boring, awkward or unassuming personality. It depends to on what scene you hang out in. If you want an edgy tatted up girl or a girl who loves heavy metal or going to rock music gigs or a new age type woman, then $500 hugo boss shoes wont do the trick. I think makeup & a short dress/skinny lowcut jeans & top will boost an average woman's sex appeal more.
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