jdnwil Posted May 13, 2015 Posted May 13, 2015 okay i have known this guy for 5+ years he has always wanted me but i was with someone else that unhealthy but i stayed faithful than in dec of 2014 i got a message from him saying he really wanted something serious with me no bs so i messaged him back and told him i wanted to do things right so i need a little time to break it off with my current boyfriend of 7 years. I also told him i was really wanting to give a chance with nothing holding us back so than in feb of 2015 we started seeing each other he has 3 kids ages 20 18 and 11 he has his youngest every other weekend and mondy and thursday nights so we only seen each other once every two weeks talk and text every day than i asked him if we could see each other a least once a week and thats when things kinda started changing he said he is really busy and right now he just cant do that so ive been trying to understand that and things got back to normal than bam he sends me a text telling me he just doesint feel he could give me the time i need than ignores me all weekend wont call or anwser my text than monday moring text me good morning i than asked him if he would call me never called than text me saying when he gets more time he will for sure get ahold of me . and now i sit here confused feeling led on i really like this guy some input please also i did ask him if he was seeing someone else he said no:confused::confused:
PegNosePete Posted May 13, 2015 Posted May 13, 2015 You feel led on because you were led on. He doesn't want a relationship with you. Time to move on...
preraph Posted May 13, 2015 Posted May 13, 2015 He probably just wanted to get in your pants that whole time. I mean, he could be busy with work, but here's the angle I'm seeing. If he really wanted something long-term with you and especially since he has some child custody and probably could really use help with that, if he were serious, he'd be trying to sign you up full-time so you could help take care of his kids if for no other reason. He's either seeing someone else or he really just always wondered what it would be like to sleep with you. Now that he's got you, clearly, he doesn't really want to make time for you. Time to start dating other guys.
purringout Posted May 15, 2015 Posted May 15, 2015 Well, when was the last time you heard from him? How long has he been ignoring you?
Light Breeze Posted May 15, 2015 Posted May 15, 2015 If someone was into you, he'll make time for you. If not, then you know the answer.
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