nick___e Posted May 13, 2015 Posted May 13, 2015 Ok so hi everyone. I have been talking to this girl for 3 ish months now but have not met her. Anyway she wanted me to get a full time job before i met her as her ex used to just sit at home and do nothing and i work part time at the moment. Anyway i have been getting interviews but not the jobs so that meant i could not meet her. So i started getting frustrated and started getting clingy with her because i felt like i was losing her but i know i am not a clingy person. she said she needed space and i didnt give her any and now she wont speak to me and i dont know what to do? I gave her like 5 days without talking to her before i said hi but she hasnt replied? I am generally not clingy its just got ***** up. I just want her to give me a chance as i know all i need is a full time job and other activities to do rather than be part time and have lots of free time but i dont know how she will give me that chance?
PegNosePete Posted May 13, 2015 Posted May 13, 2015 Why on earth would you change your entire lifestyle for someone you haven't even met yet? If she's throwing up all these tests and obstacles before even meeting then what do you think she'll be like in a month, 6 months,a year?? She's crazy bro. Move on. 1
d0nnivain Posted May 13, 2015 Posted May 13, 2015 You should get a job because you want one. If you are financially independent, not living off student loans or mom & dad, you don't need a job. She's entitled to not want to date a bum, which she defines as somebody without a job but you need to make decisions in your life based on what you want / need not because some woman told you to. If you are content with PT work, it enables you to live & makes you happy, that should be the end of the inquiry. Date someone else.
Author nick___e Posted May 13, 2015 Author Posted May 13, 2015 Yes I have been looking for a full time job before I spoke to her anyway so it didn't affect me. However she isn't talking to me and thinks I'm a dick and don't know how to get her to give me another chance?
PegNosePete Posted May 13, 2015 Posted May 13, 2015 Why would you want to? Find someone who doesn't think you're a dick. 1
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