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If you're nice to a girl on a date prepare to be accused of using a covert contract to get in her pants. today's girls think everything is some conspiracy theory. May as well just not wear a shirt and ask for sex, because at least she will say you're being honest. this despite the fact that I won't have sex within three months due to my opinion of sex meaning something and STD risk.

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Hmm. Sounds like you're generalizing based on your own bad experiences.

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Hmm. Sounds like you're generalizing based on your own bad experiences.

 

Had enough to see a pattern. being nice is a negative every time

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Had enough to see a pattern. being nice is a negative every time

 

The problem is that the typical self proclaimed nice guy's version of "nice" is usually needy, over pleasing, kiss ass, asexual behavior. They lack the confidence, back bone, and sexual assertiveness to build attraction in the opposite sex. Meanwhile, they write off genuine masculine behavior as being an "a-hole". Do women make bad dating decisions? Of course. However, it is possible to be a genuinely good guy that respects a woman while also having the balls to get her panties soaked.

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The problem is that the typical self proclaimed nice guy's version of "nice" is usually needy, over pleasing, kiss ass, asexual behavior. They lack the confidence, back bone, and sexual assertiveness to build attraction in the opposite sex. Meanwhile, they write off genuine masculine behavior as being an "a-hole". Do women make bad dating decisions? Of course. However, it is possible to be a genuinely good guy that respects a woman while also having the balls to get her panties soaked.

I gotta agree with you.

 

I always felt I was a nice guy too. Women and all my guy friends all told me the same too.

 

So, I started tweaking things up.... It's fine to be nice. But you need to be confident, open minded, but know when to put your foot down and say no.

 

On dates feel free to disagree! I used to always agree with women or change my opinion to hers to make her feel better. What I really was doing was shaping myself to her liking.... terrible move!

 

Nice guys can be nice.. but you also need to have a KICK to the flavour if you know what I mean... I think you have a few things to work on now.

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Some of us prefer nice guys.

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today's girls think everything is some conspiracy theory.

 

And I wonder why that would be?

I guess, too many guys pretending to be "nice", but are really *********s underneath.

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And I wonder why that would be?

I guess, too many guys pretending to be "nice", but are really *********s underneath.

 

Good point. "Pretending" to be the operative word there.

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If you're nice to a girl on a date prepare to be accused of using a covert contract to get in her pants. today's girls think everything is some conspiracy theory. May as well just not wear a shirt and ask for sex, because at least she will say you're being honest. this despite the fact that I won't have sex within three months due to my opinion of sex meaning something and STD risk.

 

How is avoiding sex for 3 months lower your risks of std? Is she has an std she will still have it in August.

 

And why is a woman not wanting to wait 3 months for sex is not serious about the meaning of intimacy?

 

Could it be you have different views on sex and it's not you being right or her being wrong?

 

I'm serious about finding a life partner and would never wait 3 months for sex. So conclusion I am only looking for sex?

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It's the hydra again

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The problem is that the typical self proclaimed nice guy's version of "nice" is usually needy, over pleasing, kiss ass, asexual behavior. They lack the confidence, back bone, and sexual assertiveness to build attraction in the opposite sex. Meanwhile, they write off genuine masculine behavior as being an "a-hole". Do women make bad dating decisions? Of course. However, it is possible to be a genuinely good guy that respects a woman while also having the balls to get her panties soaked.

 

you're full of it

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I gotta agree with you.

 

I always felt I was a nice guy too. Women and all my guy friends all told me the same too.

 

So, I started tweaking things up.... It's fine to be nice. But you need to be confident, open minded, but know when to put your foot down and say no.

 

On dates feel free to disagree! I used to always agree with women or change my opinion to hers to make her feel better. What I really was doing was shaping myself to her liking.... terrible move!

 

Nice guys can be nice.. but you also need to have a KICK to the flavour if you know what I mean... I think you have a few things to work on now.

Does a kick to the flavor mean just being an ass?

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How is avoiding sex for 3 months lower your risks of std? Is she has an std she will still have it in August.

 

And why is a woman not wanting to wait 3 months for sex is not serious about the meaning of intimacy?

 

Could it be you have different views on sex and it's not you being right or her being wrong?

 

I'm serious about finding a life partner and would never wait 3 months for sex. So conclusion I am only looking for sex?

 

Then go sleep with random strangers. It's what many of you are good at.

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Good point. "Pretending" to be the operative word there.

 

There's no pretending. Just you all sleeping with a smooth guy who says he is nice.

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It's the hydra again

Nothing to contribute.

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nice guy line is just an excuse of lets be friend(s) kinda deal ...

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Then go sleep with random strangers. It's what many of you are good at.

 

You cannot even defend your point.

 

You don't need to sleep with random strangers to get an std, you only need to sleep with ONE that has it.

 

So again my question is: How is waiting 3 months with this girl going to protect you against an std? Humor me.

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You cannot even defend your point.

 

You don't need to sleep with random strangers to get an std, you only need to sleep with ONE that has it.

 

So again my question is: How is waiting 3 months with this girl going to protect you against an std? Humor me.

 

Because you can trust her more after 3 months. Isn't it common sense?

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nice guy line is just an excuse of lets be friend(s) kinda deal ...

 

It's a negative for sure

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It's the hydra. Thread closed.

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