Author smg15 Posted May 13, 2015 Author Posted May 13, 2015 LOL. We're out on a date and just so happens my male cousin comes up. You're gonna pitch a fit and take off because I acknowledged him? No because I wanna believe he would have said..........."HEY CUZ" LOL:D
Hope Shimmers Posted May 13, 2015 Posted May 13, 2015 You maybe right because if you didn't see a issue with some dude approaching you, I would have ended the date and left. You would have made me think you were attracted to him especially if we was on a first date. Wow, this is almost beyond belief. You would blame your date if a male approached and tried to take a survey as part of his job and your date was polite to him? I'll bet you are a fun person to be in a relationship with. (Not) 4
neowulf Posted May 13, 2015 Posted May 13, 2015 LOL. We're out on a date and just so happens my male cousin comes up. You're gonna pitch a fit and take off because I acknowledged him? Or work colleague, or male friend (YIKES!) Or brother. I'm sorry man, but that screams insecurity. 2
Author smg15 Posted May 13, 2015 Author Posted May 13, 2015 Wow, this is almost beyond belief. You would blame your date if a male approached and tried to take a survey as part of his job and your date was polite to him? I'll bet you are a fun person to be in a relationship with. (Not) Sorry but I would have took it as disrespect
lana-banana Posted May 13, 2015 Posted May 13, 2015 Because she should have had enough sense to see that two people were out on a date and approached someone else. Um, no. You were two people sitting at a cafe. For all she knew you were brother and sister, or coworkers, or friends. Even if you were husband and wife, why couldn't she approach and ask a question? For Christ's sake, her job is to talk to people. All you had to say was "no thank you". Instead it ate you up inside because you apparently have this burning desire to be unkind to people and now you're posting about it on the Internet. While rudeness is sometimes understandable, it's never excusable. This woman's intrusion was a .05 on the Rude Scale and you're acting like she made some incredible affront to your dignity. If this is how you handle social interactions you're going to have a hard time with dating. 3
Gaeta Posted May 13, 2015 Posted May 13, 2015 You maybe right because if you didn't see a issue with some dude approaching you, I would have ended the date and left. You would have made me think you were attracted to him especially if we was on a first date. A man coming up to me wanting to ask me a question is not something I consider rude. 1
Jessie1231 Posted May 13, 2015 Posted May 13, 2015 You maybe right because if you didn't see a issue with some dude approaching you, I would have ended the date and left. You would have made me think you were attracted to him especially if we was on a first date. I'm definitely understanding why you don't get to the second date now. 5
lana-banana Posted May 13, 2015 Posted May 13, 2015 Sorry but I would have took it as disrespect It's disrespectful to treat someone with respect?! My mind is blown. I don't have enough bourbon for this. 2
katiegrl Posted May 13, 2015 Posted May 13, 2015 far from anti-social You probably don't even know what "anti-social" means: Definition (Mayo Clinic): Antisocial personality disorder is a type of chronic mental condition in which a person's ways of thinking, perceiving situations and relating to others are dysfunctional — and destructive. People with antisocial personality disorder typically have no regard for right and wrong and often disregard the rights, wishes and feelings of others. Those with antisocial personality disorder tend to antagonize, manipulate or treat others either harshly or with callous indifference. They may often violate the law, landing in frequent trouble, yet they show no guilt or remorse. They may lie, behave violently or impulsively, and have problems with drug and alcohol use. These characteristics typically make people with antisocial personality disorder unable to fulfill responsibilities related to family, work or school. DUDE THIS IS YOU..... seek help. 2
Jessie1231 Posted May 13, 2015 Posted May 13, 2015 It's disrespectful to treat someone with respect?! My mind is blown. I don't have enough bourbon for this. So true! My vice is vodka but there just isn't enough.
writergal Posted May 13, 2015 Posted May 13, 2015 Those survey people are annoying. Their timing is as bad as wait staff. Probably should have just thanked the survey woman for asking to talk to you but you had to decline because you were busy and leave it at that.
Gaeta Posted May 13, 2015 Posted May 13, 2015 So how did your date react to this? and is there a second date planned?
Gary S Posted May 13, 2015 Posted May 13, 2015 Sounds like a good place for a joke.... I would have said, "I gave at the office!", and then I would have struck up a conversation with her. Always treat people as you would like to be treated. 1
Author smg15 Posted May 13, 2015 Author Posted May 13, 2015 Um, no. You were two people sitting at a cafe. For all she knew you were brother and sister, or coworkers, or friends. Even if you were husband and wife, why couldn't she approach and ask a question? For Christ's sake, her job is to talk to people. All you had to say was "no thank you". Instead it ate you up inside because you apparently have this burning desire to be unkind to people and now you're posting about it on the Internet. While rudeness is sometimes understandable, it's never excusable. This woman's intrusion was a .05 on the Rude Scale and you're acting like she made some incredible affront to your dignity. If this is how you handle social interactions you're going to have a hard time with dating. So I should have only be rude if we already were in a relationship?
Author smg15 Posted May 13, 2015 Author Posted May 13, 2015 You probably don't even know what "anti-social" means: Definition (Mayo Clinic): Antisocial personality disorder is a type of chronic mental condition in which a person's ways of thinking, perceiving situations and relating to others are dysfunctional — and destructive. People with antisocial personality disorder typically have no regard for right and wrong and often disregard the rights, wishes and feelings of others. Those with antisocial personality disorder tend to antagonize, manipulate or treat others either harshly or with callous indifference. They may often violate the law, landing in frequent trouble, yet they show no guilt or remorse. They may lie, behave violently or impulsively, and have problems with drug and alcohol use. These characteristics typically make people with antisocial personality disorder unable to fulfill responsibilities related to family, work or school. DUDE THIS IS YOU..... seek help. Glad to hear you are perfect
Author smg15 Posted May 13, 2015 Author Posted May 13, 2015 So how did your date react to this? and is there a second date planned? No because I have another date on saturday and that will be my last one for the month and then will decide who I want to see more since I am on a budget
Gaeta Posted May 13, 2015 Posted May 13, 2015 No because I have another date on saturday and that will be my last one for the month and then will decide who I want to see more since I am on a budget So you did not invite her to another date? You need to concentrate on women you met and were successful with and stop meeting new women. You are spreading your attention all over. When you decide which of the ladies you want to see again, what about she doesn't want to see you? Then you eliminated all of your other prospects for nothing. We told you to go on cheap date. Get a second date with that woman, go for a walk in a park, bring a blanket. Cost $0.00
Author smg15 Posted May 13, 2015 Author Posted May 13, 2015 So you did not invite her to another date? You need to concentrate on women you met and were successful with and stop meeting new women. You are spreading your attention all over. When you decide which of the ladies you want to see again, what about she doesn't want to see you? Then you eliminated all of your other prospects for nothing. We told you to go on cheap date. Get a second date with that woman, go for a walk in a park, bring a blanket. Cost $0.00 I'm not completely sold on her yet which is why I am focused on the other date this coming saturday.
Author smg15 Posted May 13, 2015 Author Posted May 13, 2015 would you like to take a survey now? lol I'm 100% confident that if I was sitting there alone she would not have asked me anything.
neowulf Posted May 13, 2015 Posted May 13, 2015 I'm 100% confident that if I was sitting there alone she would not have asked me anything. So what? She was trying to ruin your date? Why would you be 100% confident about that? Are you scary looking when sitting on your own?
Phoe Posted May 13, 2015 Posted May 13, 2015 I'm 100% confident that if I was sitting there alone she would not have asked me anything. What logic is this?! Survey girl only wanted to intrude on your date? 1
RoseVille Posted May 13, 2015 Posted May 13, 2015 I read the entire thread, and not one person gave the OP a free pass to be rude. OP: When evvvvvveryone agrees you were out of line, it's time to take a step back and reflect. 1
Author smg15 Posted May 13, 2015 Author Posted May 13, 2015 What logic is this?! Survey girl only wanted to intrude on your date? Woman seem to approach me when I am with other woman. I would never forget being on a date when a group of girls came up to me for directions.
ExpatInItaly Posted May 13, 2015 Posted May 13, 2015 You cannot be serious with this. Your reaction was rude and immature. And you are the same guy who has said you don't easily get second dates? Put two and two together.
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