mysterybear Posted May 12, 2015 Posted May 12, 2015 Ive been with this guy for over a year now and recently things between us have gotten really bad. We constantly fight over the stupidest stuff and we always argue because neither of us likes to be wrong. But recently, Ive felt really disconnected with him. He is always on his phone talking to other girls or his exs. When we have relationship problems he would rather talk to his exs about it than with me. He doesnt open up to me anymore and I think that is the one thing I hate the most because, in the beginning, the only thing we would fight about was me not being open, and now hes doing the same. I am just not sure what to do anymore because I do love this man with all my heart and I dont want to end things with him, but with the way its going it looks like the only solution. I have never been unhappy with him until now.
walkingonair Posted May 12, 2015 Posted May 12, 2015 Ive been with this guy for over a year now and recently things between us have gotten really bad. We constantly fight over the stupidest stuff and we always argue because neither of us likes to be wrong. But recently, Ive felt really disconnected with him. He is always on his phone talking to other girls or his exs. When we have relationship problems he would rather talk to his exs about it than with me. He doesnt open up to me anymore and I think that is the one thing I hate the most because, in the beginning, the only thing we would fight about was me not being open, and now hes doing the same. I am just not sure what to do anymore because I do love this man with all my heart and I dont want to end things with him, but with the way its going it looks like the only solution. I have never been unhappy with him until now. Break up with him.That'll help him realize what he's lost.Guys are stupid.They take you for granted when you're in a relationship then realize they want you love you need you when you leave them.
jen1447 Posted May 12, 2015 Posted May 12, 2015 How about having a meaningful talk with him, minus the barbs? You'd have to put your mind to it but he might respond well if you started out that way. I seems early to say its over based on your first bout of fighting when things worked well before.
d0nnivain Posted May 12, 2015 Posted May 12, 2015 He's not in love with you. Love doesn't fix the problems you are having. What are you hanging on to?
Redhead14 Posted May 12, 2015 Posted May 12, 2015 Ive been with this guy for over a year now and recently things between us have gotten really bad. We constantly fight over the stupidest stuff and we always argue because neither of us likes to be wrong. But recently, Ive felt really disconnected with him. He is always on his phone talking to other girls or his exs. When we have relationship problems he would rather talk to his exs about it than with me. He doesnt open up to me anymore and I think that is the one thing I hate the most because, in the beginning, the only thing we would fight about was me not being open, and now hes doing the same. I am just not sure what to do anymore because I do love this man with all my heart and I dont want to end things with him, but with the way its going it looks like the only solution. I have never been unhappy with him until now. When we have relationship problems he would rather talk to his exs about it than with me -- That is completely and totally disrespectful of the relationship. The first time he did that, you should have moved on. 1
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