unagedtiger Posted May 11, 2015 Posted May 11, 2015 Met another lady online. Exchange #s. We talked over the phone and she giggled. I talked about meeting up next weekend. She said she will let me know since she has no idea what's happening next weekend. Is it either she really has no clue(which I doubt), or not interested in me enough to set a plan ahead? In case something better comes up? I'm so silly that I have to ask the obvious to confirm here.
central Posted May 11, 2015 Posted May 11, 2015 You're one of many prospects. If a better prospect (in her mind) is available on the weekend, she'll give priority to them. If that prospect doesn't make plans or doesn't make the grade, you may get a chance. It's hard to evaluate someone before you meet, and you can only go with what little you know when deciding to meet or not. You may be the better prospect once she meets you - until then, you're a big unknown and there are only intangibles for comparison with others. You can only keep looking for other prospects of your own and make plans when you can. If you have plans and this woman then wants to meet, tell her when you'll NEXT be available.
Michelle ma Belle Posted May 11, 2015 Posted May 11, 2015 Personally, I think your gut is right. She's probably waiting for something better to transpire and if it doesn't then you get to be the lucky man she lets take her out on a date next weekend Seriously, if a woman genuinely wants to see a guy she likes she WILL even if she has a busy weekend. She will move mountains to make it happen. At least I would. Then again, this is OLD and that's how the game is played. There is always a better option if you're always looking for one. The question is are you okay with being her second choice?
wb1988 Posted May 11, 2015 Posted May 11, 2015 if a woman genuinely wants to see a guy she likes she WILL even if she has a busy weekend. She will move mountains to make it happen. This is true, but you can't expect someone to feel that way before even a single date. It's not like she's even met the guy. OP you can do the 'chase' (be the second choice or whatever) right up until the first date. After the 1st date if she still plays hard to get or has issues confirming dates (because she thinks something better will come up) then you should probably look elsewhere.
Author unagedtiger Posted May 11, 2015 Author Posted May 11, 2015 Thank you all for insights. What would I do without you people? God bless!
smackie9 Posted May 11, 2015 Posted May 11, 2015 Keep your options open. You should have at least 1 or 2 others lined up for dates. No one is worth investing in unless they invest in you.....since she isn't all over meeting you asap, you find someone else to ask out.
Redhead14 Posted May 11, 2015 Posted May 11, 2015 Met another lady online. Exchange #s. We talked over the phone and she giggled. I talked about meeting up next weekend. She said she will let me know since she has no idea what's happening next weekend. Is it either she really has no clue(which I doubt), or not interested in me enough to set a plan ahead? In case something better comes up? I'm so silly that I have to ask the obvious to confirm here. You may find yourself doing the same thing down the road
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