Miss Clavel Posted May 11, 2015 Share Posted May 11, 2015 looking back, which i try not to do, i'm still astounded by some of the things my then husband and his cheating partner did to me. before, during and after my marriage. and i was wondering if you can share, what's the worst thing that happened to you during the infidelity in your marriage/relationship? how did you cope? okay, i'll go first. it was the time he told me that "they" never used protection because: "she's a nice person, you'd like her". the way i coped was by finding a doctor and having $400.00 worth of STD panels run on my blood work. next? Link to post Share on other sites
Maverick27 Posted May 11, 2015 Share Posted May 11, 2015 My cheating ex was texting the other guy, calling him 'my lover' whilst i slept in the bed next to me. She then called me his name in bed, then laughed about it. After she moved out, she had the audacity to call me crying saying 'how hard it is being so far away from the guy she cheated on me with' and wanted me to console her. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
StrangerThanFiction Posted May 11, 2015 Share Posted May 11, 2015 My ex sitting on the couch beside me texting the woman he had been seeing secretly for the last two years of our 7 year relationship how as soon as he got back to work and made some money he was going to take her on vacations that he would entirely pay for while he had been staying at my place paying no rent, not helping with bills at all, and not helping with groceries. This was apparently in repayment for the trip to Greece she took him on last winter that he had told me he went on by himself. Oh, and him starting up a Facebook account and adding her while not telling me he had even started one. Hm, maybe I was the OW and didn't know it the whole time? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Mr Scorpio Posted May 12, 2015 Share Posted May 12, 2015 The worst thing that happened to me was simply being ignored and lied to. My ex had gone across the country for a wedding. I had noticed her growing distant in the weeks leading up to the trip. She called me the first night she left to say "goodnight/love yous". After that? Four days of silence, followed by her admitting on FB that she was having doubts. This was followed by her coming home, saying that she wanted some alone time, and denying that there was anyone else. Three days later she dumped me after meeting the new guy over the weekend. Getting dumped was tolerable. Being blatantly lied to? **** that. Link to post Share on other sites
I_Give_Up67 Posted May 12, 2015 Share Posted May 12, 2015 Although not so funny at the time, I can actually laugh about this one now. Discovered my then GF was cheating, and I kicked her out of my place. She calls a day or two later and invites me to participate in a threesome with her and the guy she was banging as a way to say how sorry she was..... no joke. I played along just to get the guy's contact info from her. I then called this guy's home and his wife answered, I asked to speak with her husband. When he picked up my call, I identified myself to him and he immediately hangs up on me. Point made! My cheating exGF got dumped by him the very same day. She called screaming at me within minutes of MM dumping her. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Loveless86 Posted May 12, 2015 Share Posted May 12, 2015 Not as bad as some things I've read on here but .... My Gf of 18 months who constantly told me how she loved me, didn't want anyone else, wanted to get married and have my kids left me then entered into a new relationship the same day, ouch! Worst part was when she phoned me up to tell me this 3 weeks after we split. I'll never be so naive and believe a silly little girl again! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Miss Clavel Posted May 18, 2015 Author Share Posted May 18, 2015 Although not so funny at the time, I can actually laugh about this one now. Discovered my then GF was cheating, and I kicked her out of my place. She calls a day or two later and invites me to participate in a threesome with her and the guy she was banging as a way to say how sorry she was..... no joke. I played along just to get the guy's contact info from her. I then called this guy's home and his wife answered, I asked to speak with her husband. When he picked up my call, I identified myself to him and he immediately hangs up on me. Point made! My cheating exGF got dumped by him the very same day. She called screaming at me within minutes of MM dumping her. o.m.g. christ on a crutch. p.s. you are so very lucky. and smart. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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