unagedtiger Posted May 11, 2015 Posted May 11, 2015 So I exchanged numbers with this lady I met online 1~2 months ago. We didn't talk that much then and we were both quite busy. Then she suddenly disappears, no response, etc then reappears suddenly 1 month later. She says she's been having a tough/busy time. I'd say this is all bs and waste of time. You would have replied back then if you were really interested. Everyone agree? Or shall I play along like I still care? (for fun).
Gaeta Posted May 11, 2015 Posted May 11, 2015 So I exchanged numbers with this lady I met online 1~2 months ago. We didn't talk that much then and we were both quite busy. Then she suddenly disappears, no response, etc then reappears suddenly 1 month later. She says she's been having a tough/busy time. I'd say this is all bs and waste of time. You would have replied back then if you were really interested. Everyone agree? Or shall I play along like I still care? (for fun). If she's interested in what? You never met, you were just some dude she gave her number to at some point then life happened and when it does we don't really care about the online guy (we never met) sending us a text. If you should care? You're not suppose to be caring at this point, this is just an online contact. Go meet her over coffee and listen to what she has to say.
madjac74 Posted May 11, 2015 Posted May 11, 2015 Or shall I play along like I still care? (for fun). You obviously care or you wouldnt have posted about it. She may not care but you should play along like you dont care either. Most likely she just got lonely and started going through her contacts. No reason not to play along if you think you can get something out of it.
Author unagedtiger Posted May 11, 2015 Author Posted May 11, 2015 Thank you all for insight. I obviously do still care, just was not sure if I have a chance in this case.
Redhead14 Posted May 11, 2015 Posted May 11, 2015 So I exchanged numbers with this lady I met online 1~2 months ago. We didn't talk that much then and we were both quite busy. Then she suddenly disappears, no response, etc then reappears suddenly 1 month later. She says she's been having a tough/busy time. I'd say this is all bs and waste of time. You would have replied back then if you were really interested. Everyone agree? Or shall I play along like I still care? (for fun). You may find yourself doing the same thing down the road . . . Find one you're kinda interested in, keep checking into others, and come back when the others were less interesting to you.
Gaeta Posted May 11, 2015 Posted May 11, 2015 Thank you all for insight. I obviously do still care, just was not sure if I have a chance in this case. Start by meeting her THEN you'll talk about caring and chances. You may not even like her in person. 1
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