bebegal Posted April 22, 2005 Posted April 22, 2005 Went out on a date last night with a really sweet guy! He picked me up, paid, opened the car door, walked me to my door etc. So now what. Do I send him a thank you email..? Do I just wait and see if he calls me or emails me..? It was a wed night.. when should I expect a phone call etc..?
Merin Posted April 22, 2005 Posted April 22, 2005 Originally posted by bebegal Went out on a date last night with a really sweet guy! He picked me up, paid, opened the car door, walked me to my door etc. So now what. Do I send him a thank you email..? Do I just wait and see if he calls me or emails me..? It was a wed night.. when should I expect a phone call etc..? What did he say at the end of the date? Did he indicate he wanted to see you again, or that he would call you later?
Author bebegal Posted April 22, 2005 Author Posted April 22, 2005 At dinner the waitress came up to us 4 times trying to take our order and he hadnt even looked or touched the menu, and at the end of dinner after the check was paid he didnt budge until I said I had to go to the bathroom. SO he seemed really interested. then when he was dropping me off he parked his car and said I will walk you to your door. Then he gave me a good night kiss....... then he said we will have to get together again. Talk to you soon
Merin Posted April 22, 2005 Posted April 22, 2005 Originally posted by bebegal At dinner the waitress came up to us 4 times trying to take our order and he hadnt even looked or touched the menu, and at the end of dinner after the check was paid he didnt budge until I said I had to go to the bathroom. SO he seemed really interested. then when he was dropping me off he parked his car and said I will walk you to your door. Then he gave me a good night kiss....... then he said we will have to get together again. Talk to you soon Hmm.. well Girl it seems he was interested in you.. IMO if he wasn't down for seeing you again he wouldn't have parked his car and walked you to the door.. he did indicate that he would like to get together with you again.. SO LOL I think it would be okay to email him a SHORT Thank you letting him know you had a good time
Merin Posted April 22, 2005 Posted April 22, 2005 Originally posted by bebegal thanks merin! I hope so. You're Welcome AND I hope so too for you sista!
HoldOn Posted April 22, 2005 Posted April 22, 2005 If he wants to ask you out again he will. Believe me! Did you thank him for the date at the time? If not, then you could send him a very short, light and sweet thank you e-mail. But I wouldn't call him. If you DID thank him, then just leave it at that. Guys don't think the same way that girls do and he will not think you are rude or anything. He should know it is up to him. I think he will call YOU. Give him about a week, maybe he'll ask you out for next weekend. But guys like to pursue, so let him do it! It will feel much more natural that way and he'll feel that you are more precious if HE has to do a little work for you.
Author bebegal Posted April 22, 2005 Author Posted April 22, 2005 well i sent a 1 line email, I said I wanted to thank you for a great time last night. I will talk to you soon. but I was thinking then maybe I shouldnt have....... oh well. I wont reply back to it if he replies and I will wait for him to call or something. I do not want to appear to eager....
HoldOn Posted April 22, 2005 Posted April 22, 2005 That's good! The ball is in his court now. Good luck! I am sure he'll call.
Author bebegal Posted April 22, 2005 Author Posted April 22, 2005 I will wait for a phone call. I wish dating was easier....... You have to be so careful before you do anything, it can all be misinterpreted for being desperate and needy Thanks for the advice
HoldOn Posted April 22, 2005 Posted April 22, 2005 it can all be misinterpreted for being desperate and needy Yep, that's why you can let HIM be the leader in the beginning, then you don't jump the gun. Just relax in your wonderfulness and live your life, don't wait by the phone. That's what answering machines are for. I'm sure he'll call!
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