newenglandkid Posted May 11, 2015 Posted May 11, 2015 Hey guys hope everyone's doing well. I've been on here before when my gf broke up with me and was having a hard time dealing with it. Everyone's good now we've both moved on, and that's what leads me here. I need some advice on a new girl. So met this girl late last year and we started talking over text, but one night by buddies took my phone and started texting her weird ****. I tried explaining that it wasn't me, but things have been weird ever since then. I want to start over, or start on the right foot again but I'm not sure how to exactly broach the subject. Any advice? Thanks
Gaeta Posted May 11, 2015 Posted May 11, 2015 Relationships are about spending time together. You've been texting for 5 months and no dates? How come?
d0nnivain Posted May 11, 2015 Posted May 11, 2015 Have you ever seen her in person? I'd try a snail mail card, nothing too mushy but something to break the ice. Look at it from her perspective, she has proof that your friends know exactly what you two were discussing. She feels violated & wonders if you were stringing her along to make fun of her.
clia Posted May 11, 2015 Posted May 11, 2015 Just ask her out on a date and when you are out on the date, you can explain that your friend sent the messages.
Author newenglandkid Posted May 11, 2015 Author Posted May 11, 2015 Going to go for it and see if she wants to grab a coffee or meet up after work sometime this week. I've explained to her before that it was my friends but she got distant bc of that. We'll see how it goes, I'll keep everyone updated Just ask her out on a date and when you are out on the date, you can explain that your friend sent the messages.
katiegrl Posted May 11, 2015 Posted May 11, 2015 Hey guys hope everyone's doing well. I've been on here before when my gf broke up with me and was having a hard time dealing with it. Everyone's good now we've both moved on, and that's what leads me here. I need some advice on a new girl. ****So met this girl late last year and we started talking over text, but one night by buddies took my phone and started texting her weird ****. ******* I tried explaining that it wasn't me, but things have been weird ever since then. I want to start over, or start on the right foot again but I'm not sure how to exactly broach the subject. Any advice? Thanks What kind of weird shyt was your *buddy* texting her? Some buddy...and why would he do that? This whole thing sounds bizarre.. I mean five months and no meet then your so-called buddy texting her god only knows what... My advice would be to pull back and go no contact for a few weeks, let things cool down. Contact her again in a few, tell her things got weird, you apologize and would like to start again. Which means no endless texting and for cryin out loud .....ask her out!!!!!
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