96Neko Posted May 10, 2015 Posted May 10, 2015 I met this guy four or five months ago, when we both were dating other people, then we broke up almost at the same time with our partners (non-related circunstances)and we kissed. After some drama, he trying to get himself back together and some dates as friends, we started an almost FWB relationship. It was great, as we both didn't want a relationship at that time. The problem is, we see eachother every day. We talk alot chat, text, we cuddle, kiss, dance and go out together (he always starts the contact). We have a great time together, he helps me with some things, he cooks for me and buys me presents. We haven't even had sex yet (but we get really intimate otherwise). He says I'm sexy, I'm beautiful and I'm perfect. We are compatible in other levels too (same principles, same sense of humour, same goals), and I can totally see him in my future. He also jokes about our future together. Then, every other day, he seems to recall we are not actually dating, as he asks me if I'm planning to date another guy. He then says he doesn't believe in love and that he has been hurt in the past. I don't ask him for anything, I don't put more pressure in a relationship that is supposed to be casual. And I don't expect anything more from him either, I try to take it one day at the time, enjoying it. Embracing it. Yes, I think I'm in love with him, and I want him to be happy, even if that is without me. The question here is, do you think he's getting attached too?
Dallers Posted May 10, 2015 Posted May 10, 2015 I met this guy four or five months ago, when we both were dating other people, then we broke up almost at the same time with our partners (non-related circunstances)and we kissed. After some drama, he trying to get himself back together and some dates as friends, we started an almost FWB relationship. It was great, as we both didn't want a relationship at that time. The problem is, we see eachother every day. We talk alot chat, text, we cuddle, kiss, dance and go out together (he always starts the contact). We have a great time together, he helps me with some things, he cooks for me and buys me presents. We haven't even had sex yet (but we get really intimate otherwise). He says I'm sexy, I'm beautiful and I'm perfect. We are compatible in other levels too (same principles, same sense of humour, same goals), and I can totally see him in my future. He also jokes about our future together. Then, every other day, he seems to recall we are not actually dating, as he asks me if I'm planning to date another guy. He then says he doesn't believe in love and that he has been hurt in the past. I don't ask him for anything, I don't put more pressure in a relationship that is supposed to be casual. And I don't expect anything more from him either, I try to take it one day at the time, enjoying it. Embracing it. Yes, I think I'm in love with him, and I want him to be happy, even if that is without me. The question here is, do you think he's getting attached too? Strangest situation I have ever heard of referred to as a FWB situation. I would say he is more into you than you into him and you are both not looking for a FWB situation. Why would you when you both clearly want more, you have strong feelings for him and he cannot leave you alone and the "benefits" you speak of have not even yet even "happened". It sounds like fear of getting hurt on his part but at the same time it all does not add up. Tread carefully as you might get burned. He could be genuine or he could be using you. There is a lot more bad than good in the world these days.
Author 96Neko Posted May 10, 2015 Author Posted May 10, 2015 Strangest situation I have ever heard of referred to as a FWB situation. I would say he is more into you than you into him and you are both not looking for a FWB situation. Why would you when you both clearly want more, you have strong feelings for him and he cannot leave you alone and the "benefits" you speak of have not even yet even "happened". It sounds like fear of getting hurt on his part but at the same time it all does not add up. Tread carefully as you might get burned. He could be genuine or he could be using you. There is a lot more bad than good in the world these days. I understand. Sometimes I think he's just playing but then he says he cares a lot for me. He had talked about us with his friends and he introduced me with the closest ones. He also keeps asking me if my friends know about him. He started leaving his things at home.
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