cottom Posted May 10, 2015 Posted May 10, 2015 Met some girl in the gym she is 19 and I am 22. She told me all her friends had left to go to uni and the ones that stayed have got bfs so don’t go out. She hardly goes out so I invited her out for a drink. I don’t know if she classed it as a drinks date or hanging out making friends though, we went for drinks last night she had work at 5am so we was going to be done by 10-11ish, after a few drinks we ended up staying out in the club till 3am. She held my hand in the first bar we went to when we both went off to the toilet, fingers interlocked rather than follow me hold hands. We were talking and she was saying things we can do together too, like in the gym or both go on sunbeds together or go do boxing or walk our dogs together. In the club, all of my mates were in there and I knew everyone in the club so she must have been a little impressed with my popularity, we were dancing close but I felt that she liked the attention that dancing close gives and making me want her but not doing anything. As in shed lean in, move her lips across my cheek, id turn to kiss but she would pull away but like a twat. Then we were dancing and we both went in for the kiss, not a peck but a prolonged open mouth passionate kiss. Then she stops and walks off to the dance floor and says … “no I just want to dance and have fun” … so I’m thinking ah okay fair enough leave it at that. We’re dancing close again, then my drunk mates come over and she starts dancing close to them, teasing them like she was with me but every time she would tease them once then push them off and grab me and hold my hand and lead me away from them. We went to the bar and she kissed me there which caught me off guard so I pulled off a little out of shock that she kissed me when she said earlier what I took as a no. Then we went and danced then we all left the club, we was going to get the taxi back with my mate but he ended up going off to get some coke with another mate so me and this girl got a taxi together dropping her at hers and me at mine, when we got to hers she gave me a kiss goodbye and I went back to mine, in the taxi though we was talking about going for a drink tonight without everyone else but that might have been drunk talk. I woke up this morning and she text me at 7 saying how she was still tipsy and then she text again at 8 to say her manager still hasn’t turned up yet, I replied at 9 and she read the message but never replied! So basically, I do not know what is going on, is she interested, is she just looking for friends? How do I take this to the next step, I was going to phone her when she finishes work chat about how messy last night was and how she’s coping today cause it’s what me and my mates all do after nights out anyway. I might ask her there if she fancies going for a quieter Sunday night drink instead, shall i? I see her in the gym tomorrow anyway, we do the class together. I dont know if we do it together it might be awkward or she will be fine!?
SunnySide0418 Posted May 10, 2015 Posted May 10, 2015 Just see how it goes. See how she acts when you see her at the gym and go fro there.
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