suckered Posted May 10, 2015 Posted May 10, 2015 I started dating a guy few weeks back that lives an hour drive from me. I don't have a car. Since first week he told me that seeing each other during week days would be hard due to the distance and him having to make the drive there and back. We still spend couple of weekend days together. When we are together he treats me well and everything is great. He also calls me or texts me every day of the week. Do you think that the guy that genuinely likes me would make an effort to see me on at least one week night?
anna121 Posted May 10, 2015 Posted May 10, 2015 It's only been a few weeks. Does he work? If so, I certainly wouldn't be bothered if a guy didn't want a two-hour drive on a work night. In fact, if he was too open to it I'd sort of wonder how ambitious and serious he was. I think people can develop a good relationship seeing each other on the weekends as long as they are connected during the time they aren't actually together. If it's important to you to see someone more often, then you probably need to look for someone else. But I wouldn't take his reluctance to get together on weeknights personally. How old are the two of you? 3
compulsivedancer Posted May 10, 2015 Posted May 10, 2015 I think you'll be fine. I'm actually more concerned that he's always the one to make the drive. At some point, you'll need to reciprocate. Whether that means borrowing a vehicle or what, I don't know, but sooner or later he'll probably get tired of it. 1
d0nnivain Posted May 10, 2015 Posted May 10, 2015 What efforts are you making to see him on week nights? If he lived closer I could see where you would draw a conclusion that he doesn't care but a 2 hour R/T drive is a lot to ask after a work day when the person had to get up in the morning.
La.Primavera Posted May 11, 2015 Posted May 11, 2015 If you want to see him more you have to make the effort and catch a bus to see him. 1
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