toj128 Posted May 10, 2015 Posted May 10, 2015 So it has been two months since I stopped talking to a close friend of mine. We stopped talking because I was being too needy and she lied to me and stood me up(plus a lot of other reasons). I was always the one to text her but I do love her and have feelings for her and I always will. She broke the no contact rule by tagging me under a Facebook page's photo and has liked a status of mine. I miss her a lot but I don't want the same errors to repeat. I am in war with my mind with what to do, as this is a bump in our hoping to be long friendship. What should I do?
Ruby65 Posted May 10, 2015 Posted May 10, 2015 Is this a friend or a former girlfriend? Were you guys ever dating?
Mrlonelyone Posted May 10, 2015 Posted May 10, 2015 In either case this is just bread crumbs from your ex friend. If they left you wait for them to at least send you an actual message. Let her write to you at least.
Author toj128 Posted May 10, 2015 Author Posted May 10, 2015 We dated for a while but were never in a relationship. She was a close friend but I always texted her so I was clingy. I have learnt my lesson to not be clingy. She does date a lot of guys but I was never someone she never cared about, as she started to like me first.
Ruby65 Posted May 10, 2015 Posted May 10, 2015 If you were too clingy and needy and available.... why do you continue to offer yourself up to her online? I'd block her and let her see what it's like not to have you right there at her beck and call. She's probably flattered by the attention you used to give her and if you've stopped contact for a few months she's just yanking the chain a bit to be sure you're still around. Lovely. Is this really how friends treat each other? I'm thinking, she's sounding like a terrible friend and I think you'd be well rid of her.
Mrlonelyone Posted May 10, 2015 Posted May 10, 2015 We dated for a while but were never in a relationship. She was a close friend but I always texted her so I was clingy. I have learnt my lesson to not be clingy. She does date a lot of guys but I was never someone she never cared about, as she started to like me first. If you want to date this woman blocking her on FB or at least unfriending her might not be a bad move. The key is to not slam the door on her so hard that you cut off all communication. She has your email, and your phone number, etc... If she wants to reach out she can. Be open to it but don't wait on it.
dave_1966 Posted May 16, 2015 Posted May 16, 2015 Facebook hardly counts fella, she knows your phone number and she has a mouth.
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