Have you had a relationship with someone but still have residual feelings for ex?

[Mugen01]

I'm curious. How did it go? Did you eventually forget your ex and continued the relationship with your current one.. or did the current relationship fail?

[WonderWoman911]

The feelings for the ex eventually died and the current relationship blossomed, which made me realize why I was happy to be out of that past relationship.

[Sunyata]

The feelings for the ex eventually died and the current relationship blossomed, which made me realize why I was happy to be out of that past relationship.

 

I'm not quite into another relationship, but I've gone on two dates with a girl and have the exact same experience.

 

Also, I imagine that almost everyone who has been in relationships know what it is like to have feelings leftover for an ex, perhaps even years down the line. With my ex, there are things I will probably always on some level wish I would have done differently, even though it was good it ended.

[CYBER77]

I'm feeling the same,i left my ex because i didn't had any feelings for her,was not anything serious through she loved me,thats why i left her we work together(4 months relationship),i started dating another girl after two weeks i started thinking about my ex, we work together its killing me to have these kinds of thoughts as the girl i'm dating right now also works at the same place,i'm kinda confuse don't know why i'm feeling like this!

 

I even said sorry to my ex for the way i treated her. i really care for the new girl i'm dating.all i want is for those thoughts to go away.

[xpaperxcutx]

Its 5 months post breakup, and I recently got into a relationship. Most of the time I'm not thinking of my ex and I think I'm happy with my own life, but sometimes minute thoughts of the past would come up. Just today, I woke from a sex dream about my ex, which was incredibly disturbing.

 

My currently relationship is relatively new, and while the new guy makes me happy, I don't get the butterfly feelings that I had gotten from my previous relationships. I care about him and our dates have been easy and drama-free. The only thing I like about my current relationship is the ease of not having pressure. But I can't help thinking that it's not gonna go anywhere....