amandacedars Posted May 9, 2015 Posted May 9, 2015 (edited) We had a HUGE fight. We both said and did some nasty stuff neither of us meant during this argument. We own a house together, ALL his stuff is here. He moved in with his drinking buddies next door (that is what the fight was about, he has been drinking too much and spending most all of his time with them, and, he shoved me so, I told him to get out.) He has not responded to any of my texts and the one time I did go over there, he said "What do you want? Leave me alone, I am working". I sent one text pouring my heart out after 2 weeks not hearing from him. He responded that night to meet him outside to see the full moon. I missed the text. I saw it two hours later at midnight. I called him but it was too late, he went to bed. I left a voice mail and texted him the next day that I was disappointed I missed the text. That was a week ago, no response since, nothing. I just do not get it. Even if it is over (I would rather go to couseling before calling it quits), doesn't he want or need ANY of his things? Also, he just left me here to ay all the bills. Edited May 9, 2015 by amandacedars more data
Satu Posted May 9, 2015 Posted May 9, 2015 Having said that: He is responsible for his share of the bills. Don't let him get away without paying. Talk to a lawyer.
daisy_098 Posted May 9, 2015 Posted May 9, 2015 hes being completely stubborn and immature. You've poured your heart out to him so now he knows he has you wrapped around his finger and youve got the bills to worry about while hes drinking with his buddies. You're stonger than you think you are so have him, chase you. Send him a text or call him JUST to talk about the bills..if he suggest to meet up to and be with him. say no. The more you ditch and ignore him the more he chases you and will come back, but at this rate he much rather drinks with his friends then be with someone that cares about him which he'll realize later what he lost. 2
Toodaloo Posted May 10, 2015 Posted May 10, 2015 Can you rent out a room to help with bills? Sort your finances out, bag up his stuff and leave it on the door step next door with his drinking buddies. You are entitled to a grown man, not a boy and you are not his parents or a storage company so they can store his stuff - you don't need to.
dave_1966 Posted May 10, 2015 Posted May 10, 2015 He's a man child, change the locks and get someone else in if you have a spare room. Also get legal advice to make him payed what's owed. 2
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