Megas10 Posted May 9, 2015 Posted May 9, 2015 So, i have been in high school with this girl for 3 years. We have been very close friends (we walk home together, we study together, we go to the same gym, etc) I have a crush on her since the beggining of the year. Last week when we were walking home i asked her: Wanna go walking on sunday? Her first facial expression was like: walking? Serously?. Then she said aaah i would really like to but im the countryside this sunday. Maybe next monday after school?. Obvioulsy, i agreed. PD:i made it clear just with me saying: with me? Now,i really need advice because this is my first date, like, ever. Should i touch her? Should i make compliments? Kiss at the end? Cheek or mouth? Any advice is welcome Tl;dr New guy wants advice on how to date 3 years crush/friend
umirano Posted May 9, 2015 Posted May 9, 2015 Before you can kiss her you should touch her. Take her hand when stepping over a fallen tree in the woods or when the path is steep. see how she reacts and take it from there. Make frequent eye contact so you know what she's feeling. Generally go with the flow, but lead. If you're the guy who's asking whether you should be more aggressive, you likely should. Good luck
d0nnivain Posted May 9, 2015 Posted May 9, 2015 Hold hands on the walk. Can you work a beverage into the walk . . . either stopping at a coffee place or bringing cold drinks? If you can sit & talk for a while in a quiet spot that would be a good start. I'd go for the cheek kiss upon saying goodbye unless something during the date is screaming kiss me. Save up & take her to a movie or school dance next. The kissing should follow.
KayK Posted May 10, 2015 Posted May 10, 2015 Although this is your first date, you are a guy so I'm pretty certain you will KNOW if the timing becomes right for a kiss while on the date. Be yourself! Obviously she already enjoys spending time with you. Just take yourself to a new level of kindness and thoughtfulness when on a date setting with her. Be a little touchy and see if she reciprocates. Also, use your manners to show her you think highly of her and respect her. In my opinion, the best dates are natural chemistry that develops between two people...not forced or preplanned scenarios. Even if kissing doesn't happen on the first date, if she is interested in return you will feel it and a relationship can blossom from there. Good luck
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