Bob Lee Posted May 9, 2015 Posted May 9, 2015 Ok, so recently, roughly 7 months ago, I broke up with my Gf that we've been together for 7 years. Simple reason that I moved to other country, and she finally admitted that she cheated on me. By all means, I walked away. Just couple days ago, I saw her new boyfriend posted my gifts for her on facebook and tries to sell it. I felt so insulted, so what Im gonna do? Another story: After 1 months breaking up with her, I went on a serious date with another girl 600 miles from my place, thought I could get forever get over my ex, and this is somehow a serious relationship. I spent time driving there every weekends, and we've been hanging out for 2 months, and yes, for just 2 months, she sucked it all $15,000 from my savings. I wouldn't mind giving it all for my loved one, but when I told her that we need to go on economically cos I ran out of pocket, she broke up for no reason, changed her phone, moved out her apartment for no message left. It was like the whole world up side down, and I got myself drunk every night since. And again, not until recently, that I figured out that she did spend all my money on vacation with other guy, she was with me in the weekend, and with other in week days, she did move to live with that guy. So now, it's like a double impulse to me that for less than a year, I lost 2 of my serious love, and I just don't know what could I do now.
joseb Posted May 9, 2015 Posted May 9, 2015 (edited) You didn't lose 2 serious loves, the second was just a gold digger who use you, so you are well away from her. Regarding your other GF, why on earth would you be checking her boyfriends FB page? Seriously people. If you must use Facebook use it for friends, not exes, and most definitely not ex's partners. Sorry this happened to you, I too had a LTGF cheat and it hurts, maybe some time away from relationships is in order. Have you a good network of friends to spend time with? Edited May 9, 2015 by joseb
Author Bob Lee Posted May 9, 2015 Author Posted May 9, 2015 I might be wrong checking her partner, but somewhere down the line, I still love her. Im kind of new to the place Im living, so I don't have any friends. I live alone, do things alone, and yup, since that came to me, I went to bars alone everyday! I felt like I could not get over both of them. I mean I know the second one was just a gold digger, but I was so serious toward her, that's why I called it serious love, but than I was betrayed not only by her, but even myself.
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