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I can't tell if he is being flirty or friendly?


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To understand this post I'll give you a little background first. I'm pretty outspoken. I'm a big joker. Some might see it as flirting but I really just like to see people smile. I have no filter so some jokes are more on the sexual side. He kind of operates the same way. That being said...

I met this guy at work. He has been bugging me for two or three weeks to go bowling with him, something he does with a few other friends every weekend. I finally accepted and I'm going this weekend. He is always trying to grab my legs while I walk up the stairs, constantly talking to me, asked me to lunch today (but once again with other people), etc. A joke (i think?) Was made today while we were out at lunch about us dating and his best friend said we would be great together and we have a similar sense of humor. I almost get the feeling this guy is dragging his friend into it to try and push us together. I'm just confused because he is super friendly with everyone. He is just a big goofball and I can't tell if he is being himself and friendly or if he is flirting. I get the feeling he is but then again I'm not so sure. I don't hear him inviting other girls out but I'm just really confused. I gave him my number so he could "text me where we were meeting" today and he has not texted me. "Date" is tomorrow afternoon and ive been off the market for a while before this and I just wonder if I should expect anything or not? Help!!!

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I don't think he would do all of those things if he wasn't interested in you. If he just wanted to be your friend, he wouldn't be grabbing your legs and asking you to go bowling.

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That's what I was thinking but i wasn't sure. I guess I will find out tomorrow (:

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My question is do you want him to be interested?

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