What would you do if your date acted rudely towards a waitress/waiter?

[gaius]

I'm saying that how a partner treats a waiter or other employee has little to do with how attractive I find them black ops. And I doubt it's all that different for anyone else, since I've never seen a porno where you're supposed to get off to the scene where the sexy person is being uber polite to the low wage employee. I don't even remember a scene like that in 50 shades of grey. And I watched the whole movie.

 

And yes, you can change your partners behavior for stuff like that. At least when they're with you, if you know what you're doing.

[gaius]

Well, I tried this morning to jerk off to a YouTube video of a woman being very pleasant to a waitress, and I almost came when she gave her a 5 dollar tip on a 10 dollar bill since their hands touched and it was slightly sapphic, but no dice in the end.

 

I had to go back to the person I normally think about instead.

[katiegrl]

I'm saying that how a partner treats a waiter or other employee has little to do with how attractive I find them black ops. And I doubt it's all that different for anyone else, since I've never seen a porno where you're supposed to get off to the scene where the sexy person is being uber polite to the low wage employee. I don't even remember a scene like that in 50 shades of grey. And I watched the whole movie.

 

And yes, you can change your partners behavior for stuff like that. At least when they're with you, if you know what you're doing.

 

Low wage employee? Lol, wow are you ignorant. Many "food servers," at least in my neck of the woods (southern Cali), can make in excess of $40,000 per year, and if they pull enough double shifts, $60,000!

 

And to address your first sentence...how my date treats others most certainly would affect how "attractive" I find him ...and if he were as rude and disrespectful as BlackOps date was, he'd be history.

 

And I think most people feel that way....unless they are shallow-minded and as snobbish, rude and disrespectful as their date was!