d0nnivain Posted May 12, 2015 Posted May 12, 2015 I've decided that if I dont have another girlfirend within the next couple years (i.e. I keep getting rejected) i am going to end my life. Please do not do that. Committing suicide is not the answer. Please read the post from the guy on here who is devastated because his brother took his own life. Call a suicide hotline. Get some therapy. Talk to your parents. I also hate to tell you this but it's a vicious cycle. You are so desperate for a GF you will never get one because women can sense your mental instability. You have to find peace inside yourself not externally before you can find a happy partnership. Please, get some professional help to work through your depression. 2
fitnessfan365 Posted May 12, 2015 Posted May 12, 2015 I've decided that if I dont have another girlfirend within the next couple years (i.e. I keep getting rejected) i am going to end my life. Dude.. I hope you're being sarcastic with this. I know you take little consolation in this right now. But you are getting dates regularly. If you can keep an open mind, and accept responsibility for the basic mistakes you're making, then you will turn things around. I may do really well with women now. But no one can relate to low self confidence and trouble with women more than me. In high school I got friend zoned by every girl I attempted to date and never went to a single dance. Didn't have my first kiss until I was 18, and both LTR's I did have were terrible. Then from 22 to nearly 29, I didn't have sex or date..AT ALL. I mean imagine that for a second. Seven years of no female contact. During that dry spell, I re-invented myself. Went to online forums and talked to as many women as I could to learn more about the female psyche. Also took communication classes, got sales training, watched YouTube videos and read books on dating, psychology, etc.. But the first step for me, was that I stopped blaming women and took a hard look at myself. So that's why I am hoping you take the advice you get here to heart and just keep plugging away getting dates. 1
Author StephenSG Posted May 12, 2015 Author Posted May 12, 2015 I am serious about it, I don't want to be single and alone through the rest of my 20s, i'd rather be dead. The feeling of being rejected eats my alive. After screwing up that last date I feel absolutely worthless
dgf Posted May 12, 2015 Posted May 12, 2015 I need to understand how to do this. Scenario: I got a girls number and went on a date with her, yet i did the usual nice guy ****, paid for the meal, tried to get to know her, etc etc. and then the followng days her texts seemed less and less interested in what I had to say. I truly believe being nice with girls is a sure way to fail or get friendzoned. I need to understand how to be an ******* to girls but still show enough interest that things can progress to the next level. There's no way if that's how you naturally are.
dgf Posted May 12, 2015 Posted May 12, 2015 Please do not do that. Committing suicide is not the answer. Please read the post from the guy on here who is devastated because his brother took his own life. Call a suicide hotline. Get some therapy. Talk to your parents. I also hate to tell you this but it's a vicious cycle. You are so desperate for a GF you will never get one because women can sense your mental instability. You have to find peace inside yourself not externally before you can find a happy partnership. Please, get some professional help to work through your depression. Your right that he shouldn't resort to that but the way females choose guys is just moronic.
dgf Posted May 12, 2015 Posted May 12, 2015 I am serious about it, I don't want to be single and alone through the rest of my 20s, i'd rather be dead. The feeling of being rejected eats my alive. After screwing up that last date I feel absolutely worthless Your getting dates at least. I can't even get them.
dgf Posted May 12, 2015 Posted May 12, 2015 Just be more of a jerk and don't treat her with much respect. If you can do that you'll hVe ladies before you know it
Author StephenSG Posted May 12, 2015 Author Posted May 12, 2015 The last date I had is very hard for me to let go. She was particularly beautiful, and I feel like we would have gotten along well since we had a lot in common. I feel so stupid for ****ing it up. I should hvae just let her be instead of sending her that text. How do I forgive myself for this? I want to kick myself in the head.
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