2011 Posted May 8, 2015 Posted May 8, 2015 Hi Guys Wonder if you can maybe offer some advice here. I met this girl on a group night out, it was quite noisy and lots of us in the group so never really got talking to her near to when she was leaving. I asked her for her number and said we could have a catch up. Texted her a couple of times and then tried to phone and set up a date but she never answered so I texted a bit later and said how about meeting up sometime soon, she said yeah that would be good. Next day I was about to text and set up a time and she said she was going to a group night out if I wanted to come along. I said yeah I was going to it too so see her there. She then changed her mind and said she was going to another group meet up if I wanted to come along. So I'm thinking well we just agreed to meet at one group now she is asking me to come to another one. I then said why don't we just meet up ourselves and she said we could meet at the group thing. It's like she doesn't want to meet me on my own do you think it's that she doesn't know me well enough? Any thoughts? 2011
clia Posted May 8, 2015 Posted May 8, 2015 I think she's not interested in going on a one on one date with you. You haven't provided enough information to know whether I should add a "yet" to the end of the sentence. It may be that she's just uncomfortable with it since she doesn't know you that well, or it may be that she just likes you as a friend. Just go to the group thing and see what happens.
Gary S Posted May 8, 2015 Posted May 8, 2015 (edited) She's not that into you, it's as simple as that. Not yet anyway. Go to the group and flirt with the other girls. When she's interested, she has your number, she can let you know. If you are going to go to groups, you need to learn how to pick up women in groups - the way you do that is, you don't. You see which women hit on you first. Always date women who like you first and more and you'll never have a problem. This reduces the chance of rejection too, man's worst fear. We date to get women around us so they will fall in love - in classes and groups, this is taken care of for you. Do you know how many people get crushes in school? Do you smell what I'm cookin'?! Edited May 8, 2015 by Gary S
Author 2011 Posted May 8, 2015 Author Posted May 8, 2015 I think she's not interested in going on a one on one date with you. You haven't provided enough information to know whether I should add a "yet" to the end of the sentence. It may be that she's just uncomfortable with it since she doesn't know you that well, or it may be that she just likes you as a friend. Just go to the group thing and see what happens. We didn't have much of a chat as I only noticed her basically towards the end of the night and we were just having smiles and stuff across the room then a few words here and there as it was quite a loud club. I think she maybe doesn't know me that well enough yet to go on a date.
d0nnivain Posted May 8, 2015 Posted May 8, 2015 She sounds a little ditzy. . . pick one group & stick to it. She may be a little cautious & want to get know you a bit better before agreeing to a one on one meet. However some of this is your fault for being vague. Next time, say would you like to meet me for coffee at xyz barrista on Main Street, next Monday at 3:30 pm. It's very specific.
Author 2011 Posted May 10, 2015 Author Posted May 10, 2015 She sounds a little ditzy. . . pick one group & stick to it. She may be a little cautious & want to get know you a bit better before agreeing to a one on one meet. However some of this is your fault for being vague. Next time, say would you like to meet me for coffee at xyz barrista on Main Street, next Monday at 3:30 pm. It's very specific. True I was too vague thanks.
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