Wishful_Thinking Posted May 8, 2015 Posted May 8, 2015 Ok, my boyfriend and I have been dating for about six months. Short time frame, but we both said "when you know, you know." On Saturday I was questioning him about a message he sent his ex-girlfriend. We had talked about our relationship for about three hours. We went to bed Saturday night and he was crying on my shoulder saying how much he loves me and begging me not to leave him. On Sunday my BF was very distant. I asked him if he even wanted to be together and he replied "After last night, I don't know anymore." Eight hours after crying on my shoulder he's questioning our relationship? Later that night he sent me a text saying "We need to talk tomorrow," followed by a text Monday afternoon asking "Are you working tonight?" I replied, "No. When do you want to meet to trade belongings?" Later that night we met up and he broke up with me. I cried my heart out to him, but he claimed there was no changing his mind. Tuesday he sent me a text asking to be friends even though he knows I'm furious with him. Wednesday I gave him a stipulation to getting the rest of his things. He got upset and said "I'll just buy new things," so I replied "Perfect. Have a nice life." He proceeded to tell me he didn't hate me and he wished me happiness in life. Since I still had his belongings on Thursday I sent him a date and time to retrieve his stuff at my house. He sent me a message forty-five minutes before and asked to reschedule. I told him I'd just drop the things off at his house when he was not there. He started asking questions if I'm afraid of seeing his roommate, then it led to us both being disappointed by the break up. He even claimed I had my mind made up that we were going to break up by texting him to get his things on Monday. I joked and asked him to come watch the series finale of our show on Friday night. I know he's asleep and haven't read the text, but how do I get him back? Should I just drop his things off at his house tomorrow and be done? Is there any hope? Thank you.
joseb Posted May 8, 2015 Posted May 8, 2015 What was the detail of the message he sent his girlfriend? Seems like a minor thing to break up over - if it was just a simple question...
Author Wishful_Thinking Posted May 8, 2015 Author Posted May 8, 2015 What was the detail of the message he sent his girlfriend? Seems like a minor thing to break up over - if it was just a simple question... It was over snapchat and he claims she sent him a picture and he send back "Hope you have fun." I trust him, but I was curious why he didn't tell me he messaged her in the first place. In no way do I think he was cheating on me.
jen1447 Posted May 8, 2015 Posted May 8, 2015 Did he ever say what the reason to break up was? Sounds really odd. If there really was no reason you could conceivably get him back, but now you've got this wedge between you that'll hurt the trust down the line. 1
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