batjokes92 Posted May 7, 2015 Posted May 7, 2015 I met him at my Mom and Step Dad's wedding in back in October. My Mom told me he was "checking me out" at the wedding... He danced with me at the reception but he later told me my Mom told him to dance with me. He also said "you should meet my girlfriend! She'd just love you!" :/ we talked a bit and he seemed like an interesting guy! I'm currently renting the house he grew up in from his grandparents! It's a very funny situation. About a week after the wedding he sent me a friend request on facebook and messaged me saying "hey, it was awesome meeting you at the wedding, if you ever need a tour of the town or just want to hang out let me know!" I said "thanks! I had a great time with you and your family!" He then asked me when I'd be moving into the house and told me "if you need any help with anything let me know!" I invited him and his sister to my Halloween party. He seemed to be getting along well with everyone but I was spending more time with his sister because I felt intimidated by him, he brought his girlfriend along anyway so I didn't want to make any move. Anyway, I went to get my hair done by his mom (she owns a hair salon in town) and she told me that his girlfriend recently broke up with him! I couldn't help but feel like this was good news for me :/ I want to message him and ask him to hang out but it may be awkward because I didn't message him until I heard he broke up with his gf. I'm just a very shy girl who has been used by guys before so I don't want to get myself hurt if he rejects me. How should I go about messaging him? My brother thinks it's weird that I'm interested in my step cousin but my dad says it's fine because we aren't blood related. Advice please?
pteromom Posted May 7, 2015 Posted May 7, 2015 How old are you? How old is he? How close is your Step Dad's family? I guess the most awkward part would be if you dated him, then broke up with him, he could be in your life FOREVER.
Author batjokes92 Posted May 7, 2015 Author Posted May 7, 2015 He's 20, I'm 22. I'd be cool with just being his friend if romantic feelings don't develop between us. It's just that he lives very close by and all my friends live in the city so I'd like to make friends here so I'm not so alone anymore. Our family isn't that close, we only see each other at family get togethers for Christmas and Easter. The cousins on my mothers side haven't met my step family besides that one time at the wedding. If we did date then we broke up that would be awkward for sure but this is my mom's 4th marriage so there's a chance that she may break up with my step dad in a few years anyway.
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