Were over again

[BklynGuy]

Met this girl on my job in October. She told me she lives with another guy but was leaving. I would usually never get involved with someone like that but I felt this girl. I was reluctant to get into it with her but she kept saying everything would be ok. We had 2 great months. Id take her on helicopters and do a lot of nice things for her. I wanted her to be mine. After 2 months we started having problems and she ended it. I started to think she was just looking for a fling. Then she wanted to be "friends" but do everything a boyfriend and girlfriend do. She said "Whatever happened between us is in the past". Im thinking who is this girl? It's not who I met at all. I was depressed for an entire month when she left because she was dating other guys and would call me from their houses. We got back together but she was talking really strangely. I dont know who the right guy is, I dont know what I want. I want to get married next year. Im thinking, where do I come in? We had another good 2 months but she started messing up. She only wanted to see me if I was driving. I went to see her one snowy night and told her I took the train just to see her response. She walked by me like she didnt know me...like I wasnt there. She has a baby face. One night I was supposed to hang out with her and she dissed me then called me back and asked me to go with her. I said no because you dissed me before. I had a bad feeling that night. The next day she tells me she was in a club out all nite without sleeping. Then she shows up with condoms and one was missing. I know she had sex with someone that night. We got close again and things were going well, but she started dissing me and taking drinks from other guys in bars and talking to other guys in front of my face. Then I found 4 pictures of another guys penis on her phone. Not mine, not the guy she lives with, but another guy. These things started taking a toll and she would lie about stupid things. We stopped having sex, she would sleep with the guy in her apt. "We" became just about going out and having fun and drinking and what I could do for her and buy for her. We didnt have sex in like 2 months. I had to fight her to get laid and she was kinda slutty I know it. I finally told her that I dont think you love me and you havent been there. You only care about where Im taking you and thats it. Her attitude changed as soon as I said that. I was tired of her sleeping with someone else anyway. I stuck with this girl through thick and thin and now she has just left me and flown away. She did the same thing twice. Got close to me for 2 months and then left. Ive done things to make it work that I havent done for any other girl and she gone and doesnt care that its over. Im devastated.

[Marshbear]

She's to immature to know what she wants. She just wants to have fun and feels like you are tying her down. She doesn't sound like someone I would spend to much time thinking about because she really doesn't want you, only what you can give her.

 

I would drop her because she's not worth another thought.

Don't be used and don't act desperate....