ZA Dater Posted May 6, 2015 Posted May 6, 2015 So I decided to retry this app in the hope I got better likes than last time. Something odd did happen, I got one match, which while not my cup of tea looks wise I decided to chat to her anyway and we moved onto whats app. I am just not feeling any real "wow" with her, sure as someone to get physical with she isn't without appeal but the personality is not wowing me at all and have to be honest she is neither looking for a date not a one night but just looking to put herself out there whatever that is supposed to mean. Just odd really that physical attraction, she isn't hot but she isn't ugly either isn't really working for me in this instance. Not even sure I want to meet this one in person as we aren't really hitting it off over text. Should I meet her and try create something where I don't feel there is anything or just give it a miss?
Author ZA Dater Posted May 6, 2015 Author Posted May 6, 2015 if you have no other choice then yes you should meet her I am never really blessed with choice but by the same token will see how the conversation goes but just not feeling anything at all and the conversation doesn't really flow, admittedly she is trying to be perhaps overly friendly. I mean if she doesn't want a relationship or a one night what does she want?
Author ZA Dater Posted May 6, 2015 Author Posted May 6, 2015 What do you have to lose by meeting her? Just time I guess. Will see but if she doesn't wow me intellectually then I don't see much point. I cant say I find the conversation too awe inspiring at the moment.
PogoStick Posted May 6, 2015 Posted May 6, 2015 It means you can probably get her in bed if you handle her correctly.
Author ZA Dater Posted May 6, 2015 Author Posted May 6, 2015 It means you can probably get her in bed if you handle her correctly. Possibly not that I have ever had any success in getting anyone into bed lol.
toscaroscura Posted May 6, 2015 Posted May 6, 2015 While I agree that you don't really have anything to lose by meeting her, and that some people can come across badly over messages as opposed to in-person (and maybe she'll surprise you), I'm going to say don't meet her. Nothing in your OP was even remotely excited or hopeful about this girl, and I think she deserves better than someone so very lukewarm but trying to get a shag outta her nonetheless.
Author ZA Dater Posted May 6, 2015 Author Posted May 6, 2015 While I agree that you don't really have anything to lose by meeting her, and that some people can come across badly over messages as opposed to in-person (and maybe she'll surprise you), I'm going to say don't meet her. Nothing in your OP was even remotely excited or hopeful about this girl, and I think she deserves better than someone so very lukewarm but trying to get a shag outta her nonetheless. If I met her it wouldn't be with the intention to bed her. Thing with me is I am either "wowed" or I am not, the pictures didn't really wow me and so far nor has the personality. Will give it more time and see. She is however very friendly which is a big plus because most females "I like" don't give me the time of day but I think I am predisposed to going for the seemingly impossible challenge. (there is an interesting deliberate contradiction there)
joseb Posted June 16, 2015 Posted June 16, 2015 So I have a question. If her picture didn't interest you, why did you swipe right? Also, did you end up meeting her?
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