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Me and my girlfriend for 1.5 years had a breakup 2 months back. The incompatibilities were turning the relationship into a nightmare.

We decided to be in touch and be friends as much as we can. But last week she had a break down which showed me that she still wants to get back and she may think that the friendship may evolve into a relationship in some time. But I didn't want that and made it clear to her.

She took that very badly and asked me to block all contacts with her.

She still loves me and can't move on. She suffers from depression too.

Being in touch with her would act as a support for her but that will cause the dependency to continue.

What to do in such a situation?

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What to do in such a situation?

Hold true to yourself and stay No Contact. She'll get over it eventually and you both will move on.

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Thank you! That is what I intend to do. This was the first serious relationship for both of us. So I guess the level of pain is high. I must stay No Contact even of she tries to start communicating again I think. Or it may get dragged and moving on may never ever happen.

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