I'm done with the obnoxious type

[SingleDude]

This is a continuation of this post I made yesterday...

 

 

"So...the girl I met yesterday and texted for 15 hours is cool. Met her yesterday and will again tonight. We will see how that goes.

 

 

Another girl who I started talking to right before that friend requested me on FB and seems to be a little too much. Great sense of humor but really sarcastic and has the old ex/restraining order/court thing happening. Yeah I don't know. But she sure cracks me up.

 

 

The third girl who happened to message me first and was very short in her texting just asked me to call. I did. And I like how she lives my lifestyle of not drinking, no drama and likes things simple. She appeared to be very, very nice.

 

 

All are in their low 30's. I happen to be just a little older.

 

 

I swore I would never do a multi-dating thing but here I am doing just that. How to people do this? A part of me feels kind of guilty and slimy.

 

 

I have an even feeling about the first, cautious of the second and...relaxed about the third so far, even though we haven't met.

 

 

Just ranting a bit. No worries. I got this. I think. "

 

 

I just cut off the second girl. What an obnoxious nightmare. I must have asked to meet her three different times and all I got were smartass remarks. Teased me with selfies, was never serious about a single thing, constantly said "nah, you're wrong" when I commented on her looks, was always judging me, told me there's a reason I have so many exes, called me every name in the book because "I'm sarcastic by nature", etc, etc, etc.

 

 

Pretty much acted like a child. I don't mind busting balls every now and then but this mother with two delinquent kids was something else. Actually told me "I'm just you with a vagina". Are you kidding me? So I cut her off. I blocked her on FB and on my phone. I'm too old for that nonsense. What a joke.

 

 

On the upside, the first girl has been very nice. However, she is still trying to move on from her ex of 5 years who cheated on her. I'm ok with that because I know what it is like. She likes me and still talks to me and hey, even had a kiss on the second date. What impresses me is she doesn't complain about a thing. She has nothing bad to say about anyone. There is no worry about her going back to the ex, just needs patience from me to see where it goes and I'm fine with that. She has a great attitude and I get zero bad vibes off her.

 

 

The third girl is still where it is before. I haven't met her yet but we text a bit and talk on the phone once a day for about 15 minutes. Very quiet and a little shy. She doesn't engage in any kind of deep conversations but that's ok. I kind of like how she seems to keep things on the simple side and doesn't drink or party. She works in a deli and appears to have zero drama in her life. I like that.

 

 

So...that's my story. Just a word of warning to other guys out there...if you meet someone online and the first thing they do is complain, turn around and run far away and don't look back.

[fitnessfan365]

Oh man. I hate it when women won't answer directly like that. However, since you mention selfies, etc for #2, I'm guessing you kept bring up meeting by text? I know that you've mentioned talking on the phone a few times, but you should be using your first phone call to make plans if she seems cool. Trying to make plans by text can either lead to a woman dancing around it, or flaking on you.

 

Here's what crazy. I used to exchange five emails a piece, then three emails a piece, etc.. Yet the longer I'd talk to a woman, the less dates that I'd get. Now I don't even exchange emails anymore. If I like a profile and she's hot, I ask for her number in the first email I send. The funny thing is that the amount of numbers/dates I've gotten has actually increased from this. Now when I get a number and have a woman on the phone that same day to make plans, I haven't had any flakes at all.