Califodm Posted April 21, 2005 Posted April 21, 2005 Please someone..I really need help. My g/f broke up with me a little more than a week ago and I cannot get her out of my mind. All I want to do is work things out with her. I am really upset right now because I called her and we talked for a few minutes, then she said she had to go to sleep...and I said "can I call you tomorrow?" then she said, "well, it's a pretty busy day tomorrow...I have to go to work then i'm going out with some friends from work." This worries me so much.....because when we were together, the last time she went with some friends from work she cheated on me! I know she broke up with me and everything....but it still is depressing me a lot....please...anyone....help me.
clone56 Posted April 21, 2005 Posted April 21, 2005 k buddy, first off let me tell u. EVERYONE here feals your pain cause we all come to this website for the exact same reason. I bet you feal very lonely and no one understands. You wonder how you are going to make it threw tomorrow. Well 4 months later after my breakup i wonder the same thing but the light seams brighter a tad everyday. I came on LS tongiht cause im having a bad night and when i read the post it puts a smile in my face and a glim of hope that i can recover from the worst emotional dissater of my life. First off couple questions 1. How long were u together for 2. how many times did she cheat on you that you know of and when 3. Do u find yourself having trouble finding friends or dates The reason i ask cause trust me if this girl cheated on you i GUARENTEE you will find someone better taht will make your world alot brighter. If you are a social person u got to get out. Being around friends helps. However i can relate the first month was a disaster for me and I didnt leave my room and also had ot take a week off work cause i was such a mess. Now once you get out of the first stages of devistation and can breath alittle this is were u focus on you. Im not goijng to deny the fact she will be in your head 24/7 every minute cause mine is still alot 4 months later but everyday things will get less tense. Try to share alittle bit about your relationship and maybe i could pass some words of wisdom on. take care and good luck
Author Califodm Posted April 21, 2005 Author Posted April 21, 2005 Thanks a lot for the reply. Going to this site helps a lot. Even though it feels like it, I guess it isn't just me who is going through this. I do feel extremely lonely...and it does seem like no one understands. And I do keep wondering how I am going to pull through the next day. This is the most difficult thing i've ever been through. Here's the answers to the question.... 1. We were together for 2 years and 3 months. 2. She has cheated on me once....that I know of. And this was about a month ago. 3. I do find myself having trouble finding both. Everyone keeps telling me that too...that I will find someone better...that there is someone out there for everyone....just have to be patient. I have been talking to friends and family...and they are very helpful but it seems as though they can't ease my mind. I've been trying so hard to get her out of my mind...but all I can think of is "why is this happening?...our relationship was so great." Well anyway, a reply would be appreciated.
Author Califodm Posted April 21, 2005 Author Posted April 21, 2005 We have religious differences. That's her excuse anyway. The reason I call it an excuse is because I told her that if she helped me, i'd try to change.
clone Posted April 24, 2005 Posted April 24, 2005 k.well what im thinking is that if u were together over 2 years and she cheated on u recently then she was getting all she wanted out of the relationship. Yea family didnt really help me to much either about getting her out of my head. They just kept telling me to move on cause it wasnt worth hanging on to. I went to theropy but let me tell u that is a waiste cause more then likely the theropist hasnt gone threw what u went threw, it was for me atleast. give it time homie. IM going on 4 months out of a 6 year relationship, lived with her for 3 and shared every great moment a couple could possibly share. lost are virgintiy, engaged, first loves, every thing and im healing slowly. If i can do it I have faith u can to
Author Califodm Posted April 26, 2005 Author Posted April 26, 2005 Thanks a lot. I guess there are a lot of others who are going through the same exact thing. It's so difficult. But anyway, I hope I will be able to get through it, like you said. Thanks again.
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