Thermals Posted May 6, 2015 Posted May 6, 2015 As a man, are there some definitive warning signs to look for when a woman is merely interested in a one night stand?
Buddhist Posted May 6, 2015 Posted May 6, 2015 Wanting to have sex with you on the first date would be a big one.
Dallers Posted May 6, 2015 Posted May 6, 2015 There are so many warning signs and red flags to look for it really does not matter if you like someone they go straight over your head. Like the others said there are obvious signs haha but normally they are not so frank when it comes to it. Rebounds are difficult to see sometimes but there are always the dreaded talking about their past and ex boyfriends none stop and hot and cold to give you an initial uh oh moment. Someone that is interested in you is just interested in you. It's really that simple.
Author Thermals Posted May 6, 2015 Author Posted May 6, 2015 (edited) I went out with a woman once who really liked me. She was really into me. But I wanted to establish a bond and wanted for sex to happen naturally, not to be the product of sloppy inebriation, on her part or on mine. What ended up happening was that she lost interest after several weeks because there was no sexual contact. She must have thought I was a monk. I find that I have recently gone from one extreme to the other and it's hard for me to find that happy median. Yeah, wedding rings are a clear sign , but then again ....... Edited May 6, 2015 by Thermals
Redhead14 Posted May 6, 2015 Posted May 6, 2015 (edited) As a man, are there some definitive warning signs to look for when a woman is merely interested in a one night stand? No, there aren't "warning" signs beyond the obvious, ie. wedding ring or pushing really quickly for sex. I give the same advice to men that I give to women when they begin dating a new dating prospect. If you are interested in a committed relationship, don't have sex with a person until you've at least had a casual conversation about what you each are looking for out of your dating journeys in general. If you are on that same page at least and want to be intimate, go ahead. Have that conversation as soon as possible and then wait for a couple of dates at least anyway. You still won't really know for sure if a person is only in it for sex at that point, perhaps, but then from that point on they should remain consistent with contact and dates at least. If they aren't, you move on. And, sure, sometimes you have sex on a first date. But, if they don't want to accept a date afterward or contact becomes sketchy, then you know it was a one-night stand. If it's a man wondering if she only wanted a one-night stand, what he should do, is after that night of sex, if he likes her enough, he should ask her for a date the next morning or before she goes home. If she declines, it's only a one-night stand . . . Edited May 6, 2015 by Redhead14
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