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I always hear about this can someone tell me what this means cause i doubt it means you are someone's friend and they let you sleep with them or ya :D

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Originally posted by OCCDAVE

I always hear about this can someone tell me what this means cause i doubt it means you are someone's friend and they let you sleep with them or ya :D

 

That's exactly what it means. Friends that sleep with each other (aka "friends that f*ck" aka "f*ck buddies.") Either that or it's a friend that allows you to hold their hand. I can't remember which it was. . .

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It's a bad idea, so don't even think about it.

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Generally, its a matter of one person having an emotional investment in someone who doesn't have mutual feelings but isn't above taking advantage of the situation and using the person for hassle-free sex. This happens when someone is in love with someone who isn't in love with them, and allows themselves to be used because they'll take whatever they can get.

 

FWB is rarely a case of genuine friendship with sexual 'benefits' - it can happen though, and I've had genuine FWB relationships before (great fun, great sex, mutual understanding, zero hassle...). You just have to find someone who is completely on the same page about what it is you want (and don't want) from the FWB relationship.

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