niesc Posted April 21, 2005 Posted April 21, 2005 My GF wrote this... Why stay some where you’re not getting any attention? Sometimes I wonder if I wasn't so in love with him it wouldn't hurt so badly but I can’t help, but fall in love deeper & deeper. Pink always said (you're just like a pill, instead of making me better, keep making me ill). My version: Instead of being happily in love with fewer arguments, I’m depressed, stressed out (almost to the max) so high I sometimes want to do crazy things like kill myself due to the fact I feel this stress. I want to be able to breathe again. I want to love & be loved like in the movies / fairy tales. Why? Why? Why can't I have the fairy tale? I mean I just could breathe in the beginning of it all but all we seem to do is argue, argue, argue, argue, everyday, nonstop. I want it back; I want it all back, I used to have the perfect relationship. I feel everyday it's worst & worst. I just want to let myself free so bad. It's not like it will make a difference to anyone. I want to be whole again. I love him to death, can't live without him. I terribly want it all back when we were both happy. What did I ever do to deserve this? I need happiness All he does is make me feel so low & hurt, I cry basically almost every night. I'll give anything to be happy again with the man of my dreams (niesc) I could give her what she wants and do the fairy tale stuff but it won't solve the issue I’m sure of this because she has a habit of taking things for granted and being ungrateful. I believe if I were to take this option it would only make things harder. I've never encountered anyone like her, she really believes she can do/say whatever and nothing will come of it and if something does come of it she gets mad or wants to hurt herself because it's not going her way. I find it very hard to talk to her about ANYTHING, What I’ve noticed is that when I am talking to her about any thing she doesn't accept/listen to what I’m saying instead she tries her best to counter it, I would further explain to let her know that's not what I mean and she would extend her counter to belittle whatever it is I’m saying instead of just listening and understanding. It gets so frustrating that I give up and say never mind I expected this and walk away for a while until I cool off. This usually triggers her depression in some form or another but I don't know how else to deal with not being able to talk to her with ease.
Merin Posted April 21, 2005 Posted April 21, 2005 Wow.. well not to be mean but your GF sounds like a Drama Queen.. First, there isn't a "Perfect Relationship" Second the movies are just that.. and hour and half escape but not real. Third, when someone makes you feel as bad as all that it isn't Love.. Time to sit down with your GF and talk... It's unreasonable and IMO unfair to expect your SO to be your everything... while it's all good to go to have expectations they shouldn't be more or less than what she herself (or you) are willing to give..
MadDog Posted April 21, 2005 Posted April 21, 2005 Originally posted by Merin Wow.. well not to be mean but your GF sounds like a Drama Queen.. You took the words right out of my mouth. Definite grade A certified drama queen on our hands. She sounds exactly like my ex. If I were you my friend, I'd get out of your relationship and run as far away from her as possible. Girls like her excel at creating drama and chewing bubble gum--and 99% of the time, they're all out of bubble gum. The real problem with girls like her is they're extremely selfish. They only care about how they're feeling and most of the time, every little thing is the end of the world to them and they let you know it (by bitching, crying, yelling, etc.) Do you really need that in your life or would you rather be with a girl that's cool to you?
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