chelseamoon Posted May 5, 2015 Posted May 5, 2015 I dunno what to do ahe broke up with me 6 months ago (im also a girl) i Taught we were getting on ok again as friends as iv learned to deal with the fact she doesn't want me back even if I still have feelings for her. We both have kids who are close from prev rel so thats why we didnt move out. She's downstairs where she has utility room bathroom etc so does not need rest of house. I use this. Her choice. Things became very nasty the other day when I came home and see had her friend there helping her move studf like washing machine in my kitchen so I can't go her area. I lost it because all she had to do was talk to me first about it. Instead making me look a fool infront them and my home which I invited her into. She told me not to use downstairs bathroom (which I need to Bath my youngest) so I lost it told her stay down there, her child's welcome around all the house but I don't want to see or talk her as all she does is take the piss and do what suits her. 3 days have past and she has not come out. Her child sometimes. I texted and told her use kitchen if wishes as it's silly to be down there with child eating. She didn't tb. She exnores me. I said move out if u don't stop acting like a child but no reply. What do i do. I don't care if she stays for me I don't see her And we share bills but it's just got out of control. Do I just exnore her now for weeks and what if I need to ask about a bill or something how should I if she doesn't tb or come out. All I wanted was her to communicate and just be friends who get on but shes made it clear it's just her she cares for but then why is she still sticking around.All my fam ans friends said she nos I still care and she plaY's on that and knows I'm soft. do I let her do chasing or what. I don't want the kids to be apart.
Toodaloo Posted May 5, 2015 Posted May 5, 2015 Chelsea I don't know how many times we have to say this to you. Quit flogging a dead horse. Tell her to move out. Go no contact after she has and let yourself heal. The longer you go on like this the worse its going to get.
preraph Posted May 5, 2015 Posted May 5, 2015 She hates you. You are not getting along and never will. It's over. This is bad for the kids to have to watch. Stop hanging on to her and one or the other of you move out. You can still let your kids be friends and have sleepovers. 1
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