Author Rko28 Posted May 7, 2015 Author Posted May 7, 2015 So I asked her out, I said was thinking it would be nice to maybe go for a drink or 2 this week or weekend, you know been that youre so bad at texting will be good to maybe get to know each other better Sent that at 8pm last night and then didnt check my phone until 11pm bed time, message was delivered at 10pm, read at 10pm and no reply. Why would someone so happily give out their number yet have no interest at all in meeting? I dont get it. Think im done with this whole internet dating crap.
Cali408 Posted May 7, 2015 Posted May 7, 2015 Why didn't you call her? Stop hiding behind the keyboard
Author Rko28 Posted May 8, 2015 Author Posted May 8, 2015 Why didn't you call her? Stop hiding behind the keyboard because she gave me her number to text her, as ive said, if i had met her in person id have no problem in calling her. She spends enough time on whatsapp by looks of it to show shes a texter. All in all....shes a flake.
Cali408 Posted May 8, 2015 Posted May 8, 2015 She gave you her number, does it matter. i agree she's a flake, but you need to set the tone. By calling her, you show confidence and willing to take charge. All i'm saying is go down swinging, and dictate the action. Don't let the action dictate you.
fitnessfan365 Posted May 8, 2015 Posted May 8, 2015 As I've gotten and more and more dating experience, I've become far less concerned about "looking needy". Girls that like you, want to hear from you. As long as you don't blow up there phone 24-7 and space it out from time to time, you're fine. For example. I'll send a text to a girl so she has my number. Then when she texts me back, I call her back right then and there since she has the phone in her hand. Now some guys will say this makes me look needy, over eager, etc.. However, since I started doing this, it always leads to dates and no flake outs. I personally think the key is to be more assertive in the date planning, and then back off and don't crowd a woman after you make plans. Some guys fall into the trap of doing "getting to know you" texting marathons leading up to the date. Then when the date happens, they have nothing to say..LOL
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