darkbloom Posted May 6, 2015 Posted May 6, 2015 I live pretty close to NYC, and I believe that we are in a better position to meet people than those who live in the middle of nowhere. The city is swimming with people from every single planet. Sadly I think of my ex when I think of the city. We'd always have day trips which were so much fun :( Okay, but seriously, the idea that you can't have a relationship with anyone living in the city is just crazy. You might not be ready to try finding someone, which is fine. You don't have eyes to see anyone else because you aren't over your ex. You're just thirsty for a relationship. You'd basically date anyone because you're desperate for a girlfriend. I am in this situation at the moment lol. Also I know the feel about warm weather making you depressed. Sh*t sucks man.. Now that I have a better geographical location for you na, I can send you those smacks upside the head when you talk nonsense. I am so excited. 1
ColdandLonelyinAK Posted May 6, 2015 Posted May 6, 2015 Lol. I have you ALL beat as far as dating goes. The clue is in my name. lol Alaska here. I win, lol. In all seriousness, I thought I was the only one who became sad by the weather getting warmer. Just reminds me we won't be camping, swimming or going on road trips and seeing the beauty of this state this summertime together. It is hard.
Author Jonp219 Posted May 6, 2015 Author Posted May 6, 2015 Alaska here. I win, lol. In all seriousness, I thought I was the only one who became sad by the weather getting warmer. Just reminds me we won't be camping, swimming or going on road trips and seeing the beauty of this state this summertime together. It is hard. Nope you're not the only one. And this nothing, I can't imagine how I'm going to feel come July or August when we normally go away just to relax. Lately I've been curious to know what she's been up to and I'm trying my very best not to check her social media, but know I'm going to give in soon. I honestly don't want to check until at least a year or 2 has passed, but I miss her. Kind of wish she cheated on me or did me dirty, that way it would be easier to get over her.
ColdandLonelyinAK Posted May 6, 2015 Posted May 6, 2015 Nope you're not the only one. And this nothing, I can't imagine how I'm going to feel come July or August when we normally go away just to relax. Lately I've been curious to know what she's been up to and I'm trying my very best not to check her social media, but know I'm going to give in soon. I honestly don't want to check until at least a year or 2 has passed, but I miss her. Kind of wish she cheated on me or did me dirty, that way it would be easier to get over her. Sure enough, I felt terrible when I woke up this morning. Trust me: DO NOT check her social media. I made the mistake of doing that last week and noticed he had added his ex who cheated on him as well as her best friend and another girl who had tried to break us up. I think he did it to spite me, but I'll never really know. I blocked him and took him off of Snapchat. I am still tempted to look. It's really hard when information can be right at your fingertips. In our cases, ignorance is bliss. And I know you wish she had done something like cheating to make it "easier", but trust me that that wouldn't help. In fact, it probably would make it WORSE. You would have a lot more to go over in your head and drive yourself crazy. I know it's hard. I'm right there with you. Always here if you need to talk.
DannyCA Posted May 7, 2015 Posted May 7, 2015 Nope you're not the only one. And this nothing, I can't imagine how I'm going to feel come July or August when we normally go away just to relax. Lately I've been curious to know what she's been up to and I'm trying my very best not to check her social media, but know I'm going to give in soon. I honestly don't want to check until at least a year or 2 has passed, but I miss her. Kind of wish she cheated on me or did me dirty, that way it would be easier to get over her. Jon, what's up dude? Man I was hoping to hear better news from you You know that's a bad idea...don't check her social media. I know everyone's not me, but I told you even after 2 years, seeing those pictures of my ex with another guy and seeing that he posts stuff to her FB all the time eats away at me just a little bit at a time. The thing is the only reason I have her back on IG and FB is because I thought it would be ok to let her re-add me on social media after we saw each other for the first time in 2 years. Now I feel like I would be acting childish if I blocked her again. I'm not sure if this will help you in any way, but I'll share. Social media is in no way a good indicator of what is going on in a persons life. Every one picks and chooses what to put up. But you knew that... -I have a handful of attractive girls who like and comment on every single one of my posts. I have never hooked up with any of them before. -About a year ago I put up a picture of a friend of mine (a girl who I used to hook up with all the time) on my IG when we went to the bars together. She is a genuinely a cool girl. Funny thing is, she really is just a friend. I haven't hooked up with her in 4 years now. -One night myself and a couple of friends of mine were drinking at my apartment when one of my friends (another girl) decided to put up a "couple-ish" looking selfie of us on my account. She wrote 10 year plan as my caption. It's because we have an inside joke going between us that we're gonna marry each other if we're still single in 10 years. I have never hooked up with her nor do I plan on it. -There are a few girls who I like every single one of their pictures. Guess what? I've never hooked up with any of them. -I can name off the top of my head 3 girls who have posted pictures of me on what looks like dates but it was just us hanging out. If their ex boyfriends, etc saw those pics, they would jump to conclusions that I'm dating them. Guess what? I never was. My point is checking social media doesn't do anything but create stories in your head. Stories that are solely self-manufactured and you have no one to blame but yourself. Don't make your own head spin because you can never know the full truth about what's going on in her life by checking. Like I said, you're only going to create stories in your head that probably aren't true. Don't check. 1
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