sutsie Posted May 5, 2015 Posted May 5, 2015 I just recently got out of a relationship, 3 years ended by a text message and not even 2 months later she's dating a guy that's a total downgrade from me so i got my closure. Over and done with, thank god. Now I'm starting to really want to date again. I only date for marriage, I only have sex with a girl if I truly love her and am in a relationship with her, and I probably don't have the heart to ever leave someone that I love. Where would I find a girl that has these same moral values or whatever you want to call them? I'm currently going into my senior year at college and I work part time. I love working out and playing my video games (Huge Destiny guy) and really just like to have a laid back relationship with whomever I'm dating. I love cuddling, watching netflix, going out to eat and to movies and just relaxing with that girl i'm dating. I was really hurt in my last relationship and am just wondering where would I find a girl that shares the values I have and a similar lifestyle?
LostOnes05 Posted May 5, 2015 Posted May 5, 2015 When you find her, let me know if she has a sister. 2
1q3455402828193 Posted May 5, 2015 Posted May 5, 2015 It has only been 2 months since you broke up with your partner of 3 years! What's the rush, especially being a senior in college (Me too! Whoop whoop)??? Two months isnt enough time to permanently move on from a long-term relationship anyways. I think you should just enjoy your senior year! Remove emphasis off of a relationship and just have fun getting to know people. Online dating is really popular, may be try that? Or participate in more events at school, so you get much more of an opportunity to meet new people. Now, if you decide to not take my advice into consideration and you still want to be in a relationship......there really isnt anywhere specifically you must look. Relationships tend to happen naturally. So, you would just have to be as sociable as possible! The more people you meet, the greater chance of finding your match. Good luck! Also...is it possible that you are trying to rush into a new relationship because your ex is now in one? And if so, admitting that to yourself is very important because it shows that your arent ready to be in a new relationship. Which is fine! Take the time to REALLY get over her.
d0nnivain Posted May 5, 2015 Posted May 5, 2015 I would look around in your classes & your on-campus activities. Church would be another good choice. If you are not already involved in a campus or youth ministry join. Do not look for her in bars or at parties.
Vintage79 Posted May 5, 2015 Posted May 5, 2015 I'd likely go with what D0nnivain said - at least don't look for her at Bars or Parties. I'm not a big church person, so I'd personally nix that one, but activity groups - hiking, art, climbing, whatever, are usually good places.
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